ElderEmoJen

Yea XD I spend alot of time working on cars its slowly turned into a life lol. I dont know if its a good thing or a bad thing anymore :/

I was just researching more towns in SoCal, but about the same results as last time I checked a couple years back. The most affordable medium or larger towns that aren't severely crime ridden and are close to reasonably affordable are the Palm Springs/Palm Desert area. 9 out of 10 say avoid Desert Hot Springs and Bakersfield doesn't seem much better with a high number of parolees and sex offenders. I like the look of the Palm Springs area with the hills and mountains right there. Also looks much nicer and more progressive and modern than Tucson. But of course it's more expensive. I'll have to check Craigslist in the area to see rental prices.

Years ago I saw a guy at my school going after a basketball twist his leg weird at his kneecap went to one side. He was on the ground screaming in pain, so I can't imagine totally busting it. Sure I've scraped my knees up bad as a kid, but it wasn't all that after the initial shock. I've never broken a bone or dislocated anything. My ex has knee problems and back problems because she's 250lbs with like a G cup. She's been working to get breast reduction since even before she turned 18 but insurance doesn't want to pay for it so they keep making all these impossible goals like she has to lose 100lbs but since her breasts are close to 50lbs that's not possible.

Have you already expressed the feeling that you are being misunderstood to the person(s) in question? Or do you just mean in a general way that people just tend to say they understand what you feel even when they don't?

I'm feeling increasingly frustrated. People tell me "I understand completely." but they don't... I'd like to be understood, but I hate when people pretend that they understand something they can't even grasp. It just hurts my feelings more than anything.