azureflame

Her soul would still go to the afterlife. Like I said, that's where all souls go to. Of course, there are other possibilities, such as reincarnation or if souls die with "unfinished business". At least with reincarnation, if it does happen, you two would be fated to meet again. Those with unfinished business roam the earth as ghosts and have a hard time being put to proper rest. I'm no expert on the whole matter, but I like looking at the more brighter side of things. And even if you two never met again, you would still have sweet memories to remember her by.

Oh! Now I get it. I don't think you'd both be seperated in the afterlife. All souls reconnect in the afterlife, even when it comes to pets. It's not like everyone is seperated by individual Heavens with each one being ruled by a different religion. That wouldn't make any sense.

I knew what you meant. And even if she did die, you could visit her grave and pray for her, even if she had a different religion. Sarah prays for my sick grandma, and that women has never been to a church in her whole life. She's more into the Native American part of our heritage. I apologize if I'm not being clear enough. I never was good with explanations. It also doesn't help to think so much with a headache. But I try.

I see. But if something did happen to your significant other, you could still be there by her side and tell her that everything will be alright. But I won't tell you how to live your life. I really think that a girl will like you for who you are. :) Am I making sense to you?

I don't blame you. I've had thoughts about ending it myself, but I could never do it. It wouldn't be fair to my friend, Sarah. Even though she's been Christian for years, she's been through worse. She used to even cut herself and smoke. And despite my lack of faith in God, I personally stopped her from doing those things. Because she is one of the most important people in my life. Without her, I wouldn't be here talking to you. If those non-Christian friends of yours were really your friends, then they should have been there for you too. I understand how hard it must've been for you, but if I was one of your non-Christian friends, I would've been there for you no matter what. That's what I think real friendship is like. Again, this is just my opinion. I hope this isn't bothering you. Should I stop? Sorry...

I won't get mad at you. I myself was (suppossed to be) raised Christian and I did believe in God, but I lost faith a long time ago. Often I would pray for God to show me some light in my life, but I only found myself sinking lower into a pit of despair and hopelessness. Now I don't know what to believe in anymore. But I respect your religion, although I don't really think religion should seperate you from someone you like. No matter what religion a person is, they can still give helpful and spiritual advice when you need it. But that's just my opinion. You could explain it a bit more, if you can and want to, so that I can understand it better. I hope I haven't scared you off. My best friend is Christian and a big anime fan.

There are girls who like shy, nice guys like you. Don't give up! One day, you'll meet the right girl. I have trouble finding the one for me, but there are various reasons why it's hard for me to get that close. I was hurt before by my first boyfriend and I'm afraid of rejection. I will admit that I have been asked out, but one of them was more of a bro while the other went WAY too fast for comfort. Also, if you don't mind me asking, what is your religion and why can't you date someone who doesn't share the same view? I know, right? He'd look so badass...

Haha, you're not lame XD People of all ages can be shy towards others. ...Except maybe really old people, but you get my point. My older cousin, who's married and as a family, was shy like me before meeting her friends and the love of her life. You just need to take some steps that will help you come out of your shell more and do it at your own pace. You'll be fine. And thanks XD Although I still need to find him an eyepatch.

I hide behind books, but yeah I understand. It's not really so bad, except for when you really want to talk to someone. You can get nervous and jumble words, yet you try to make a good impression. My shyness never really helped me get many friends or even some respect from popular jerks. But I like talking to people, even though I keep thinking that I'll mess up. And thanks :3 He doesn't have an eye and his ear is messed up. I often tell people that he got wounded during a big battle.