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the_geeky_panda
Its really simple, If you are taken but hangout with your friends and don't flirt or suggest things, your good. If you cross that line yeh you can bring in that argument. If I had a girlfriend that told me I can't talk to any of my other friends (that were girls) I would tell her to stop being jealous I am only friends with them. If she pushes the issue I am not afraid of breaking up with her because if she ain't gonna trust me then, she won't trust me ever.
augos
Oct 05, 13 at 3:36pm
i don't like it either/don't understand it
ryuseven_0
Well many of us are not good at being social. Sometimes when you are in a relationship you forget how to interact with others. Having these conversations can be beneficial to both parties. I will admit talking with the opposite sex can cause flirting regardless of being single or not. But at the end of the day it falls back on who's bed are you in. Words are just words. Actions and where your heart is. That's what matters. Plus keeping yourself sharp can help you keep things interesting with your significant other.
nightmaresweets
yeah i love boys soo i have alot of boyfriends but i would only have one man and ill prolly break up with him too if he push the issue of me texting them too much but it jealously and i dont like it when a guy get jealous but i kinda sorta like how jealously makes you not want to lose that special someone it a sign that they dont want you to leave them for the guy/girl your texting or hanging out with late at night (7- 10:30ish) playing video games and hanging out with her/his while her/his friends arent there then yes jealously will be VERY common (duh!!xD) but it how you work around the jealously and deal with it that really matters if you want to save the relationship my method would be since im pretty blunt and open minded ill pretty much will tell my man "hey....im jealous can't you tell yet?xD" and he would leature me saying nah nah nah nothing gonna i swear to you blah blah blah but then it doesnt fill up that lil hole in ur gut xD so what i do is i dont really push into friendships to attain my lover but i will get her number from him if nothing happening then he should easily agree to give me it then ill call her up mostly after work so i wont bug her and communcate with her and tell her if shes interest in my man and not to tell her to fuck off he mine but more like "Well if u have a thing for him do u think he be better off with you?" and with her answer that will determine if i have any right to be jealous of him having more fun aand more hours with her/him but all in all be honest come right out with your feelings and communnicate :) and the jealously stage will go by but im pretty sure everyone went thur the whole jealously stage onnce or twice their ENTIRE LIFE :3 just learn to deal with it but never try to hide it from your partner that will make the jealously build up and trust me you don't want that ^__^ good luck to all and remember be honest!!!
nightmaresweets
p.s if you every get jealous and it eventually get build up to "i think he/she cheating" dont go looking for the signs until he/she start acting realllly werid FIRST and putting a lock on her/his phone then thats when you go "UH-OH!!OHHHH SHIT!!! O_O"" But if she/he never locks his/her phone or hide his/her phone from you then clear your head nothing going on : ] but if she/he lock it suddenly then she/he most likely cheating and that girl/boy he/she tells you is "JUST A FRIEND" maybe isn't just a friend after all!! <:(
superfly1414
It all depends on the context of the conversations. My ex felt bad for talking to a guy at a convention, and it broke my heart when she told me she felt bad because she felt like she was doing something wrong. You never want to hold someone back from making friends. But now she is dating that guy, and although it rips my soul apart, I feel like I was the better person. So like I said, its all context.
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