Body types/weight

from what ive dealt with im 6'1" and about 270 so I got a belly and that throws people off from dating me it seems at least for this state that most people are more into physical traits which I don't get the only thing I that attracts me to someone is a personality why cant people start focusing on their personalities rather than looks

i weight 168 and yes i like a guy with a stomach i dont really like muscle much too hard to cuddle with lol frankly they feel way to hard to cuddle up too sooo a jiggling stomach is fie cause it way more comfortable it like a soft pilliow lol but you never really know how confident a person is unless u meet them in person face to face and take off your clothes that how you really determine a person's confident cause people lie to themselves alot about it to impress people and make people like them more i had a dude who told me he was confident but whenn it comes to sex nahhhh he didnt take off his shirt even when i ask and some dudes really hate their hairy legs that they keep their pants on still!!!!o_________o soooo yeah people bullshit alot :/ the only moment that really matter is onnce u take off all ur clothes then how they look at you cause i had guys change their minds on my body type before it was very hurtful too after i got undress annd sat on the bed siling and ready to play they would give me the same look.......that would say "should i fuck that?" yup true story :)anyways it comes down to their opinion donnt believe guys or girls sooooo easily when they say they have confident :/ cause they lie even if they do call u sexy it still not true

It's really someone's preference, there are skinny guys attracted to "overweight" girls, and skinny girls who like bigger guys. However, weight is just a number, and so many things can be taken into consideration. If you are taller or have a longer waist, you'll look thinner than someone who is shorter waisted or on the short side. Also, muscle weighs more than fat. I know a few guys who are incredibly athletic that are about 9% body fat, who weigh in around 200 pounds. My personal preference? If you have less fat on your body than I do? It grosses me out. My ex was like that and it actually made me not as attracted to him when he would walk around without a shirt on. So to me, I like guys who are "average", to a few extra pounds. And keep in mind, there's nothing better than a guy who has CONFIDENCE in his body. If you can take your shirt off in public and not be wanting to cover it, that can make you appear much more attractive!

I agree with a lot of what NightmareSweets is saying. I'm a big girl. Big boobs, big butt, thick thighs, and a bit of a tummy. A lot of men nowadays don't like thick women because they associate big women with being disgusting and repulsive. I've had a few guys turn me down because they truly are not attracted to big women. Then there are those jerks that want to be with a big girl just to experience it. And if they don't like it, they toss the girls aside. I don't discriminate when it comes to body types. I do prefere a guy that could pick me up with little struggle and toss me over his shoulder. But stick thin guys are kinda a no go for me. I'm scared I might break them. Unless they prove my opinion different.

^ I wonder if I can do it :P Nonetheless, I'm no Macho man or stick stickly. Yep I'm as pudgy as Yajirobe. Although despite that, ppl find it hard to believe I weigh 300 lbs, but considering how I'm about 6,3 I guess it shouldn't come off as a surprise. Nightmare Sweets and Kittygourmet you two are very attractive gals in my opinion and don't let what others say tell you otherwise. Society has brainwashed everyone that women should be bone thin, yet have a beautiful rack and ass, whereas men are supposed to be tall and brawny like Arnold Schwarzenegger. Quite frankly it's complete BS and I just tune out ppl who believe so. Sorry about that rant, It's infuriating how things are nowadays.

yeah carrying weight varies a lot between girls.. i tell people my weight and they are shocked and accuse me of lying. i'm hourglass with a gut haha. but my preference are girls with small boobs but thats just me :p i love talking body shapes instead of weights because people of all shapes can be pretty!