Confessions

@tea Well yes, when you know a person it's the same. Actions speak louder than words. After a certain number of times if someone says something but acts completely different then you can tell how they really feel or how much value they really put in what they're saying. @everyone mentioning sleep calls They're really nice to have in the beginning but it all depends on how well you get along with someone and how often they want to have them. Everything in moderation. If you overdo anything then it can become unpleasant.

Never had a"sleep" call, but I did have kinky calls, videos, pics... etc from someone on here a few years ago. If that all counts.;P

Tea, "Done it", inserted tab A into slot B? But, glad to hear you're trying to enjoy the little things. Ok... Jokes outta duh way. Talk to him, tell him what it is that you want and ask what he wants or even see you as. There's no sense in stringing him along or just leaving yourself in limbo, two months is PLENTY of time to have some sense of identity and direction. It's not a label if it is what it is.

@ohnoes Shit I should use that with myself. I'm not wanting to push someone but if I don't see any Improvement within 2 months or so I should move my ass on and let them know as well despite whether or not they want to have more time to consider things. If things don't improve in that amount of time than they aren't going to improve