Last one to post here wins

4 months ago. I basically had to be a big girl and get my s#@& together before I could seriously consider being in a relationship. If not I knew what ever little fling I got in I knew wouldn't last.

I see. Though really you don't have to be looking for a relationship to socialize here. I'm good at making casual friends but not as good at finding anyone interested in a possible relationship. But then I like to be friends first and then after talking awhile hang out irl and see if there is a mutual attraction. I think for most people on here, the challenge is finding anyone close enough to get to know irl.

That wasn't what I was meaning. I sort of cut myself off from alot of people. It was more of a period of time where I needed to find myself. (As cliche and stupid as it sounds) before I was snapping at friends (online and off). And just being hoe-ish. So I made a choice to be alone for a bit.

Ok, I see. I have gone through stages where I was really depressed and wanted (or needed) to get away from everyone for awhile. I once sold everything I had and left town after a lot of drama and feeling betrayed by so called friends. That was many years ago.