so I'm on a dating site

And the guys I like always ignore me. I don't see what I'm doing wrong. Its just frustrating not to be noticed. I can't post pics cuz I'm way too shy and half the people here don't anyways but the half that do are super cute. I feel like I'm never going to be good enough to compete for love. No seriously! What do I do to get noticed by certain ones and not attract crowds?

You know its bad when you're sitting there thinking. "Gee I wish someone would introduce me to that person." Because you know you'd never be able to talk to them otherwise.

Or bad. Depending on who's look and who's not. Some people like mystery... and lots of people don't like the way I look so I'm way too nervous.

Hmm, just gotta get over the shyness! Although it's fine if you stay a cute Caterpie. :'D Even if someone is super cute, and they're don't have that great personality accompanying it.. It's kinda worthless. Sure it's nice eye candy, but that's not enough to keep a relationship going or to stir up love, you know? It's not a bad thing to attract crowds, but I get what you're talking about. Forums is a great place to meet other people. Leaving a "Hello~" on someone's profile is also a great way to have a one-on-one chat with someone. So far as I've seen, everyone is pretty friendly. If you like anime a lot you'll fit in pretty well. :3

I should know this by now. But it still kinda hurts to have messages ignoted. =( Thanks buddies I'll try harder.

Yeah then why does it matter if I post a pic or not? I did post one sort of pic but that's as good as it gets for now. And that's what I want anyways is to be liked as person not as eye candy.

I don't mean to sound like a jerkstore but regardless of what anyone says, everyone has standards in terms of "Physical Attraction". You can tell me that you don't and I'll call you out on it. My point is, people want to know how you look like. Regardless if you're attractive to them or not, there is no gain if there is no pain. Being shy isn't bad but if you're your own enemy, you should probably fight it before you expect people to fight it for you. :\ EDIT: And I just wanted to add something here for everyone to see. If physical attraction didn't matter, you all probably wouldn't be single and would probably already have met at least someone on here.