Turn ons?

It's like babysitting, without the pay. I won't even get into details.

I just wonder something. How does one gauge another's intelligence? I hear that as a turn on all the time, yet I think it really means maturity. I mean, if someone doesn't match your book smarts are you going to just up and ditch them? Why not just say that you're seeking a mature individual? Unless of course, it's meant to come off as some sort of superiority complex. No one really needs to answer this, just think about it. I realize that me asking this the way I am can certainly stir the pot, but I'm really not trying to. Either way, I hate when it's said like that, as if you're ( not you're as in anyone here...Just in general) some how some sort of mental elite. Sorry, I've dealt with similar things being said by my own girlfriend ( of course she was a little drunk sooo...pot calling the kettle black 'n all.XD) and I know for damn sure that she's got book smarts that I probably never will. She's no better than me even so....My point is, it's some what demeaning to those whom you may pass up and deem " unworthy". Sorry...Just a little rant.

Well I know you said you didn't need an answer but I'll answer anyways...What you say about it being demeaning is true and I don't really like to judge people but sometimes people tend to make it hard not to judge them, and when someone is blatantly un-intelligent then it's not even a matter of superiority complex, it's a matter of not being able to find common ground outside of skinship... It's not that they're unworthy, it's that it's literal work to try and even communicate, or just get along in the first place. Physical attraction can only get you so far, differing opinions can be overcome with two moderately intelligent people because they can WORK together to find common ground. I'm not saying I'm a mental elite, but I want to hear actual words and sentences come out of my partner, and preferably topics that matter. I want to not have to worry about them making a stupid decision that may affect their life, or worse both of ours. I want to be able to talk about things I like and am interested in without them looking at me confused like I'm talking rocket science. What I want is simple, what I want is not dumb superficiality, but a real person who can think and take care of themselves.... I'm pretty sure that's what people are talking about when they find intelligence attractive, because it means capability to work through differences. At least that's my opinion on the subject...I can't speak for everyone but I think a lot of people would agree...

For me cute face, skinny or some meat on the bone. Great personality. Lastly one or all of these three legs, boobs, or butt.

For me it's about personality, confident assertive women are a huge turn on. Followed closely by overly affectionate and bubbly. Biting doesn't hurt either unless it's crazy.. drawing blood and crazy bruises not ok.