Wrong from Right?

Don't get me wrong lol. I'm not trying to change for anything O_O. I was just stating that the things I would expect to be a turnoff, being a jerk and etc... would turn girls away but it attracts them lol. Stuff like that, essentially, wrong from right lol.

Hmm... well, maybe you aren't being much of one and they could tell it was a mistake or what not and that is why? But yes, there are girls that fall for guys that are jerks all the time lol

The thing with "nice guys" is usually that's the only thing they can bring to the table. OH I love my bf "hes such a nice guy" and that that's where the ability to brag about him pretty much ends. That and a lot of guys who are "nice guys" are more fake than most people because they do things that they wouldn't normally do and it's obvious. My experience, is this woman will be attracted to any type of guy as long as 1 his personality is real and not a cover, 2 he is genuinely interesting, and 3 that he is proud of all his traits good and bad.

basic theory here: i've noticed this too and it might be a paradox effect in today's modern society/culture we have to think twice about everything. girls might subconsciously be doing this with male behavior as well I am genuinely nice and even though girls appreciate it, they end up with 'bad boys' it doesn't help that chick flicks tell girls to make tons of wrong decisions until the end because that is the traditional formula for a long struggle that "proves the power of love" after all is forgiven. especially at the climax a huge mistake must take place (from either party) that puts the relationship in peril. this has been brainwashing us. if they make the right choice from the beginning, the movie would be over before it started :P tell me if i'm wrong about cliche chick flicks (and if "chick flicks" is an offensive word)

Well movies in general don't give good advice about realistic relationships for both men and women. Pretty in Pink's Ducky perpetuated that it's OK to basically be an obsessive stalker to your female friend and then throw the biggest "friend-zoned" meltdown when she shows interest in someone else. But in terms of why women seem like they prefer bad guys, this article has a pretty good explanation, in my opinion, on why that is : http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/12/appeal-bad-boys/