Is love really for me?

All lf your advice helps, I always say love truly is a double edged sword, and well I guess it can kill you as well as save you, but yeah I am young so I got time.

No way do you need to be insulted over this. It's a common thing for guys to be hung up on a crush for an extended period of time. But it's like it sounds: a crush. They'll come and go but they'll only ever stick if you try to make them. Yeah, this girl sounds like she's really in your head but what goes in can come out. I'm not gonna give you crap like the "there are millions in this world you could be with" cause that's what it would be but the underlying message remains that you will come out of it. Might take a while but don't fret over it. You seem to be a decent guy. That'll work for yu.

If it helps, you will get better as you get older at getting over women, even women you cared about deeply, because you will have experienced rejection a lot of times and you will be forced to continue moving forward with your life regardless. You will eventually become aware that perhaps the girls in your past who you lost were perhaps actually not-so-perfect or good for you at all, and that helps substantially in getting over them. I used to feel the same way you did about three or so girls over the past five years, but now my feelings for them are neutral/basically dead: I look at their pictures and feel nothing at all. I do feel a tad bit bitter toward one of the more recent ones because I haven't had as much time to get over her, but I suspect that will happen fairly quickly. Don't get me wrong-You will still feel horrible for quite some time, but the more you get rejected and the older you get, that time will shorten immensely, especially if you do things which build your self-esteem, don't wallow in self-pity, and look towards the future.

I didn't read all of your responses but to me from your initial post it seems like you're still in love with someone else thus are incapable of loving anyone but them, that shit's hard to get over.

maybe u cant stop thinking about her cuz ur feelings r unresolved? (idk if u confessed or not srry X3) but I had the same problem with a boy In middle school, he treated me like shit but I still loved him