Turn offs?

hyperactive yelling, running around, glomping. facial hair, lack of hygiene, dressing for cons... outside of cons, short hair(don't judge me ;_;), cold and uninterested women, lack of intelligence and interest on self improvement, wearing too much make up, closed minds, girls who don't like hentai(it's not that i'm all about sex, I just think that i'm not that compatible with that kind of people) and that's everything I can remember oh and people that hide stuff from me but I hate that on everyone

@Julio: I don't understand what kind of people do you expect those you don't like hentai to be? Maybe some people just aren't comfortable with pornographic content?<p> Uhm. I don't like overly romantic men. There is definitely nothing wrong with being romantic, don't get me wrong, and men like that are few and far between. But I have difficulty with romantic notions. I prefer a more subtle approach, I guess.<p> That's all I can think of!<p> ... OH NO. NO. BACK HAIR. NO BACK HAIR IS NO.

For me, the biggest thing is just finding someone that actually takes a genuine interest in my life. I know I'm not going to win any awards for most exciting bf of the year or anything, but I can't tell you how many girls I've "dated" that it's almost 80/20 about them and their lives if not further skewed in their direction. I want to learn about a girls goals, friends, family, personality, and her life in general, but I sometimes wonder why it can be difficult to find someone who will do the same with me? Self-absorbed people are a pretty big turn off for me. I'd also say girls who excessively drink/party, flakiness and indecisiveness when it comes to who they want to date, and girls who just ignore or don't respond to messages or calls are also really big turn offs for me.

Women with smelly feet or put too much make-up on. Being glued to your cellphone <--- There is nothing more irritating that seeing a beautiful woman glued to her cellphone. Leave the self-affirmation to the kids. Skinny women that judge big women. Big turn off. Nothing is more repulsive than kissing someone who smokes cigarettes. I'm sorry to all my previous girlfriends who stayed with me during the time I smoked. Ill never do it again :o People that complain they are bored all the time. Please do not express how you take advantage of freedoms by complaining you are bored. ibuprofen, nothing is more irritating than taking ibuprofen when tylenol can do the job just fine. Women that spend 5 hours in the bathroom just to walk out and complain how the humidity messed with what they wanted to do. It took 5 hours to figure that out?

@so crates :insert random bill & ted voice here: What defines overly romantic? Do you mean hopeless romantic? Like the cheesy stuff? Say you miss an anime convention. A person that is interested in you attended said convention. He proceeds to purchase a cute stuffed animal for you. When he meets up with you after the convention is over he gives you flowers and a stuffed animal to make you feel better because you were unable to attend. Too romantic?

@Michael: No, that's not a problem. I'd say more of a romantic overload that is an issue for me.<p> Wish there was an easy way to put it, but I was in a relationship with someone who was very kind and thoughtful, and romantic. Cheesy romantic, as you put it (I called him a cheeseball all the time lol). And when we'd talk at night, he'd talk on and on about how special I was to him and how he respects how strong I am. I don't mind that either. But this was every night, for hours. And I'd try to steer him off to more casual topics, yet that wouldn't last long either.<p> See, after awhile, it wasn't so special anymore. And, to be frank, I'm not very well-versed when speaking. Writing, yes, but not in conversation. So I began to feel inadequate when I couldn't respond in the same fashion.

I personally hate people that are too needy. Like, unless I'm around, you just don't know what to do with yourself. Major no-no. Oh, and I don't like when guys are more feminine than me. Not that I'm very feminine in the first place, but...I don't know. It's just weird for me.

Major turn off for me would be women that are a bit too....touchy feely with others. I understand hugging friends etc. that isn't a big deal, but you don't -need- to be hanging off of every guy friend you have or licking your female friends saying it is "harmless" as if it is a one sided thing that they decide when they are dating someone. Basically the biggest turn off for me is lack of moral integrity. Lots of my exes had an issue with this one.