girls who like jerks

@thatdude. A moral sociopath is inconsequential, but then again if one was moral one wouldn't be a sociopath. But to address your comment directly: Depending on what you actually mean by "warning flags",You're actually incorrect because charisma combined with the things i said are only CORRELATED to Sociopathy/Antisocial Personality Disorder. They are NOT CAUSAL or Definite traits of all sociopaths. I get that you say not all Alphas are like that but its a bit unfair to have these traits as a warning sign for a potentially normal person especially when better more obvious symptoms, with stronger links, exist. That being said i pose it that you have fallen prey to fundamental Attribution error. The signs of a sociopath are these: Failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest Deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure Impulsivity or failure to plan ahead Irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults Reckless disregard for safety of self or others Consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations Lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another With these its much easier to spot, a sociopath. Also i only rant on this because I've seen lots of people mistakenly call a simply well adjusted and like-able person a sociopath and because the psychologist in me cry's out to correct a cognitive bias.

@roukuro, thats true m8, but while they're not definitive traits, they are traits that are relatively common among-st these people. Caution before jumping into a relationship is always advised ;)

lol how about we change alpha to confidence then because girls like alpha based confidence and that tends to be less crazy XD

Girls in general do like alpha roles, but it depends if your dominant or submissive. Personally alpha personalities are damn hot, yes, but if he doesn't back down at all it's just gonna bug me. But then I have a history of choosing allll the wrong guys and I guess that is proof that girls do pick jerks, but it's not like I did it on purpose. So blah. lol ^^;

oh sempai it's not your fault. but i find alpha hot because i need a man who can keep up with me and not be submissive i need to know he can think on his own

I think that since there are more women in the world than men(so statistics say), that men have an advantage over women in a way. They can play the role of a nice guy...build her up...have relations with her...and go on to the next. It's a sad fact but it happens every day. Men are wretched beings...well most of them are. xD I'll gladly claim to be an exception to that since I've been hurt a few times.