"ready made family"

I would not mind it. But I would want ot let the children get to know me first and not make them feel like I am trying to push my way into their life. I say it has to be comfortable for all the parties. So I would never shy away from someone who has a premade family but I would not Jump in without taking everyones feelings into heart =) I think that is what I mean to say.. hope it came out right.

i am not asking who wants one. i want to know what kind of person wants one? and yes talamar... i get what you are saying.

Oh Sorry Miss read.. and that all comes down to each individual I would say.. There is no set person type. I would say Someone who cares for you and is willing to take that plunge. So while that is vague and probably not helpful I think it is the way of the world. Everyone is different and they are going to have different feelings on the subject. But I am guessing anyone who cares for that person is willing to do anything to make them happy.