Guys-please inform me :D

Guys generally are clueless when it comes to women, that is why we suck at picking up the "clues" guys can communicate with little words, that is true. Example: i was walking in the hall i saw my bud that I've known for most of my life i say, "hey (insert nickname no more than 3 letters here)" he says "hey Ave" back. In those few words we said enough to know how each other was doing. We keep walking the opposite direction, he sees another friend of ours that was a female a short distance behind me.he says "hey, (insert girls first name, no abbreviation) how are you doing?" She replies, " good, how about you?" He replies, "Doing good" and keeps walking. I did the inserts as to not openly say their name, because they may not appreciate that.

I think if every you have questions as to a person's intentions, it's just better to come out and ask about it, guy or girl. Like I know I've apparently friend-zoned people just because for some strange reason they view a girl being friendly as flirting and then they kinda went overboard assigning "signs" that I liked them that way for everything I did like saying Hi. ... But yeah, some guys (nerds especially) kinda have this tendency to be proto sherlock holmes and it generally doesn't work out like that at all

well mr.maverick i can handle shy...super kawaii <3 and is only ever happened once before. and phoenix, I'm glad i speak that lingo too xD. but also guys cant be afraid to ask even if its hypothetical

I agree neither one should be afraid to in my opinion im more then welcome to be the one that does but also will be slow about it a bit until i know that there might be something but to answer your question not all guys will and alot could be rather shy and usually the shy ones will wait for the other to make the move but not always there are so many different people so you cant class all guys in one boat thats for sure still i have seen some pretty dense guys before one for example basically had three girls ask him all kinds of things and all the while making romantic advances because of his cosplay when one said if you would like to go on a date he basically thought she meant going to a con yeah it happened i know that for sure i remember exactly where at the anime expo 2012

DreamerWing11 I think I know the answer you are looking for. I will tell you over private message. What I will say on here is this. First, ask him if he feels shy or uncomfortable around girls? Just follow up with "I was just a little curious is all". he won't think anything of it. All you are doing is gauging what kind of guy he is. If he is the shy type then you're best bet is to straight out tell him. If he's not I will answer that over message. What I will say is like for my self when I am tired I don't feel like putting in the effort. Women require effort from the moment you first engage them, the conversation and escalating the relationship. So a guy that's uncomfortable, shy or lacks confidence we will look down or away from you. Doesn't mean he doesn't like you. If you keep smiling and giving him looks. It will put pressure on the guy to get the courage to make a move. If he doesn't manage even so then I just let it go because he's likely not ready for you or not interested in that way. Although the looks thing is for a guy you see for the first time. With the one you mentions it sounds like you already talk. So first gauge him then make your move. Don't think anything bad of it, if his not into you is okay. Even if it feels awkward just try to be chilled about it. Eventually it will smooth out. There will be a time the friend zone will pass. That's when you meet the right guy at the right time.

I have to agrre with the statements that we dont take hints very well, if at all. Regarding the "friend zone", I have ONLY ever heard girls initiate or talk about that concept seriously, in all my 29 years I have not met a single real-life male that operated under the "friend zone" rules or core concept of understanding, I believe it to be one more of the mystical "reasoning tools" women use to navigate their overly complex social interactions. Honesty is key! The biggest problm i see are these typical female games of "How much does he like me?" and all its effects, which include but are not limited to: Gauging his level of interest based on how much material worth he will throw at you # of drinks/fancy restaurant/new shoes/flowers. (Some people, believe it or not, dont see much value in material possessions and symbolic actions so for the female part to weigh them too heavy is major strategic misstep. Taking the opposite stance in situations you would normally agree with him in, to see if you can subdue his personality for the sake of satisfying your ego. ( does he love his game more than me? result= Dont play the game or i am leaving/if you vote for that guy im leaving, and the like. There are a million things that females do that they dont even realize are detrimental to their own succes in the hunt for romance, and listing them all would take far too long and spark far too many arguments, so these will be my 2 cents for this topic.

Well like with all people each one is different. Like I tend to be bit shy but direct when it comes to someone vi really like. But I have had more then a friend or two guy and girl alike that never were true to their feelings. Saying they were keeping their options open. Ended up huetin nice peopke just cause they were selfish. Si they come in all shapes.