Friends Or Relationship Partner

Well I think your Partner should be your friend so it is a question that is one in the same. But I value friends veryhigh.

What Kitsune said. She seems to know what she's talking about. Soulxevans, I hope you find what you're looking for, but be positive. Always be positive.

I see but if you make friends with other girls and become close one of those could become somebody like that and also be more likely not to abandone you if that developed into a relationship

Yes but some have been bringing it up that friends turning into a relatioship partner is more healthy when you look at it its the truth

@ kitsune I'm not trying to be negative her and I do agree with everyone on the best friends make great relationships but at least in my personal experience non of my friends have ever seen me as a romantic interest after we were friends already and I've never had it happen later on ether. I think you get to know the person a bit get a little bit comfortable with them, then once you are in the relationship you get to the point where they are also your best fiend ya know? I'm also not trying to come off as desperate on here I feel it's a nice safe place to express what I'm thinking without any really worry of being judged to harshly so I'm really just saying what I'm thinking. I'm honestly just working on my self right now and not really perusing, or looking for anyone at the moment and I'm not trying to get into anything quickly right now just want to take things slow if anything happens to come my way. I was mainly just trying to point out that I have enough friends and that if a girl came along that I had feelings for and she just wanted to be friends I'd have a hard time being friends with her.

Hmm i can understand your feelings to the matter and cannot blame you if thats how you have been dealt so far with finding somebody but all in all you may find something brighter at the end of the tunnel if you wait for the person after becoming friends to possibly become something else usually friendship relationships somehow manage to last longer then normal ones due to the fact that you have a even tighter bond to said person making it harder to leave them but if that is your choice then so be it also taking it slow is a good idea