Virginity

I would wouldn't mind if they were a virgin or not as long as the love making is supposed to be warm, relaxing and euphoric.

I'd say how well you and the other person's sex drives match up should be taken into consideration. And me personally would say that waiting whether or not your partner is a virgin is really a young person's game. When it comes down to it, if you find someone you love unconditionally and they feel the same, well, it's not going to matter if they've never had a sexual thought in their life or if you're going to be their 1-millionth customer.

lol I had a long written post about the pros/cons of virginity vs. experienced loves... Then I decided that in the interest of a dating site... to keep it to myself. I prefer non-virgins. That is all.

Virginity is overated in my opinion. Sooner or later one will lose their innocence. I have the same views abo sex that Japanese society and culture has. Sex and love are 2 completely separate things. Sure you can mix and match them but at the end of the day they exist in nature separately. Because of this, saving your virginity for somebody you love or marriage is bollocks. "Try before you buy" people. I just think that Western religions tend to praise virginity as a precious commodity. I find that disturbing. <p> I agree with Robscene, it's good to find out what's your partner's sex drive. Sure you can love someone without sex but when you want to physically manifest it through sexuality and your partner does not want to, especially if you are in a marriage that is a sexless one, it will not last as long as you think.<p> I am glad that I found another hyper sexual on here like myself; minus the mental issues and drugs associated with it. =P<p> When it comes down to it it shouldn't matter if your partner is a virgin or not. However if you ever decide to have sex, all I have to say is have fun with it and use caution.