The Worn-Out dating dogma.

I agree with you talamar concerning the field of who they want in a relationship dokusuji i have been in 5 relationships not on here and i had two on here neither worked out in the end i know that its really easy to blame it on the person that your not with whenever you break up especially if it truly goes to their fault but you got to learn to be more there though i made a mistake with this the first relationship i had was bad but i learned from it just like the others however i did not let it control me though im sorry that we disagree and still i think that there are a majority of both sides doing it i know from experienc in many places that things like that happen however this does not mean that it is all bad or most girls should be that i know at least 20 different girls on here that are quite foward when wanting somebody im not going to name anybody because that should be private but its true as for the commas and proper puncture sorry kinda busy typing on skype working on stories and manga along with talking on the phone i like to multitask so sorry if my grammar suffers from it

Doku, in the grand scheme of things, no I'm not really that old. But comparatively, I'd say at least 80% of new girls I see register on here are the 15-21 age range, and for guys in their 30's like talamar and me, most aren't going to be interested in guys our age. Not saying we would even date someone under 18, but I'm just pointing out the main age range I see girls on here for. Even girls in their early 20's probably think someone 10 years there senior isn't really datable and want someone closer to their age range. Compound that with distance factor, we're behind the eight ball that much more even before we message someone on here. XD Not saying it can't happen for us, but you younger guys still under 25 have a better chance imo, at least on this site. :P But I do get your point of this thread. A lot of guys on here are trying to find a relationship, so it shouldn't be that surprising to get messaged a lot on your wall if a guy finds you interesting.

^^ lol, actually, i feel the same. most girls i initially think are cute end up being like 13-17 when i actually click on their profile. part of that has to do with me liking petite girls, but still... i feel your pain there, believe it or not. hahah.

However dokujisoul thank you for looking out for the guys on the site and using what you had experienced to help others i would discuss the topic more with you but im rather occupied with alot of the things and discussing it fully for me would take around 2 pages at least of typing

lol no prob. any to clarify, im speaking for everyone because i think its something people need to really consider. it will help everyone, in the long run.

I agree it would it would help females find the male they always say they are looking for and it will help the males out there looking for a female so i understand your viewpoint im just concerned with how the females are going ot react to that