Don't touch the no no's

On the open minded means you are close minded I will have to politely disagree. Being open minded means being able to have a conversation and consider what the other side is saying doesn't mean you have to believe it. I,myself do not believe in God or at the very least I don't believe in organizef religions version of God thats because no talk that wr have had makes,logical sense in my mind. Anyway,my no's lol can't be a druggy can't be too clingy and can't be a smoker alcohol on occasion doesn't bother me but no alcoholics

I'm almost 40 years old and I've had enough relationship experience over the years to develop a fairly sizable list of these, but not all of them are deal-breakers. Nuance and circumstances are your friends. So, some of the big deal-breakers: 1. Kids: I have been through this. I got fixed for a reason. Then I spent ten years raising someone else's child, and it was enough time to know that that's not the life I want. And having to sit down a child I'd raised for years and explain that his mother and I were breaking up is not something I'm willing to ever go through again. So no kids, or at least, no kids who still live at home. 2. Religion: I have none and don't particularly care for most of them. Spirituality is something entirely different, that's healthy and I shouldn't have to explain the difference. 3. Not cat-friendly: you don't have to have cats, but if you don't like them, are seriously allergic, or have a big dog with a prey response, we're gonna have problems. 4. Right-wing: I have very liberal politics and I feel strongly about them. I don't feel the need to shove them in people's faces, but at the same time I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who believes and votes for things I find morally repugnant. 5. Sex-negative: I like sex, sensuality and touch. I wouldn't be a good fit for someone who doesn't like physical affection, has a lot of shame or guilt tied in with their sexuality or who looks at sex as a recurring duty rather than something fun to do for pleasure. No judgment, it's just not what I need in a relationship. 6. Doesn't like anime: I kind of feel like this goes without saying, given the site we're on. But yeah. That's one thing I learned from the last few relationships; I need to be with someone who can at least appreciate anime, enjoys watching it with me and who can cope with my level of hobby involvement.