Whose on here for love?SERIOUSLY NO BULLSHIT!

Trust me. I know. I've had probably the worst type of heartbreaks but it's happened so much to me that i've gotten to the point where I don't really care anymore. Just play your own game and wait for them to come to you. Not chasing means that you'll potentially miss out on potential relationships but it also means no heartbreak xD.

"the worst kind of heartbreaks"doesn't mean eaither party is at fault. It could be years in a relationship that goes nowhere. The heartbreak comes from realizing you have invested a lot of time into someone else and not having anything to show. Another scenario is spending half a decade with someone, having children with them and the other person bails because being a parent just isn't their thing. It is unwise to measure the worst of it. We all have encountered heart breaks and some may take it better than others. What matters is we learn from these experience and apply what we have learned in the future to prevent any shortcomings you may have had before. I agree with fictional dreams. After a few times of having your heart processed through a meat grinder it is hard to recover. I am currently going through the recovery stage. The lack of self esteem is killing me. I was once a confident assertive person. Now I feel like scum, unwanted like a used shoe being tossed out. I am realizing surrounding yourself with positive people that support you no matter what helps with the healing process. But even then sometimes that isn't enough.

I think everyone is "looking" for love to an extent. Many of us may not be searching everywhere possible for it, but we are reaching out to other people with the same like-minded values and perspectives because we seek that shared connection, even if it is friendship there is love in that. Yay mega run on sentence!

I think I said it before but since its not high pace and everyone has the same interest give and take a little bit It's perfect to talk to girls without them feeling like you out to get them and you gett to know what they like and see if they match yours and make some friends

The site moving slow isn't the site's fault. Although I believe too many people are putting too much faith in the site itself. You still have to do your own individual work to finding "THAT" person. There's obviously competition and things are scarce but it is what it is.

Haha that's why I keep active and trying I mean sometimes it could seem like its bothersome but what the heck I like the site