What do females like more? Alpha or Beta

there's pros and cons for both, so.. both? just be yourself~! :) though personally, being compassionate means more to me than being confident/manly.. x3

Yeah, I agree with some of the girls are saying. Sometimes a mix is good aswell, guy's don't have to be one as the same we are all different and have different ways. One guy, can be sweet deep down inside and caring, and just doesn't show it enough unless he starts trusting you.

I agree with jessie in my opinon being yourself is always what you should do dont let others steer you differently let your personality shine regardless of who likes it or not your bound to find somebody doing that

I agree with jessie in my opinon being yourself is always what you should do dont let others steer you differently let your personality shine regardless of who likes it or not your bound to find somebody doing that

I know this thread isn't really directed at males, but I think it goes for both ends of the spectrum. Just like I'd venture to say most women desire someone with a mix of both traits I'd say most men desire the same thing. I can't really think of anyone that wants someone completely submissive, someone unwilling to push back occasionally, or just all-around clingy. It's already been mentioned numerous times in this thread, and regardless of how cliche it sounds it's true. Grow comfortable and be confident with how you are in your current state. Making improvements over time to certain aspects of your life is great - everyone needs goals or aspirations - but more importantly be yourself, don't ever lose sight of who you are, and as a result you will be happy without "needing" a significant other to base your happiness around and you won't attract people that are looking for a specific trait you don't possess. (Holy run-on lol)

I'm more of a Beta. I can lead a relationship totally, but I prefer not to be the primary/only decision maker. Plus, I'm not super macho or anything and I can hold a conversation about ANYTHING.

Personally, I would choose the beta one.. ^^ My personal opinion though it that noone should have to change themselves just to satisfy others.. You're born as the person you are.. you only get shaped over the time.. However, If you're not naturally drawn against one direction, you shouldn't force yourself to take the darkest road..

The balance thing is true. However, there's a certain order in which it works real well to start a relationship. People like to be lure in by certain levels of confidence. Not too abrasive but just right. Then once things get started they like to see your many sides. That's what keeps them interested. I use some examples but I risk screwing myself lol ^^`