who wants to be a father

You know, I'm uncertain about this. Everyone I know around me are starting to have kids and when I see that, it kinda feels like something inside me wants that kind of joy of being a father. But when I look at the world today, it's absolutely hectic. I'm not using this as my absolute excuse to not have children, but life has much hardships. I definitely wouldn't want my kids to go through them. I'm also not really big on the american dream thing. In my opinion, it's pretty much said what life you should have here in the United States. Kinda just being another brick in the wall. Anyways, this is all where I'm pretty much at in if I want to be a father or not. I'm sure a simple yes or no would have been fine, but I wanted to elaborate a bit. Lol :3

Honestly, I would really like being a father. Granted, it's not the easiest thing in the world, but it would be something wonderful in my life. Atm, I'm trying to get a Bachelor's degree so I can take care of a kid.

I hope for those who want to be a father can live up to that life long expectation. You don't want to end up on the <b>Maury Show</b>! <P> <img src="http://media1.break.com/dnet/media/2012/6/26/9b3a3148-0222-4a33-9988-a543dc02cdb5.jpg"> <P> Sorry, couldn't help myself again.

Would love to be a mother one day, that's practically what I live for. To have a darling husband, a lovely home, a good career, and 1 or 2 kids running around my house... with a puppy. :P <3

I'm indifferent on the subject, to a degree. I would be fine with about 2, as long as they weren't one after another. Not something I have to have though. But one of my biggest fears is I will give a woman children and she'll run away from me afterwards. I grew up in a divorced household so I'm fervent on that NOT happening again. Also, i have found children can ruin many marriages if you don't have them when appropriate. If I were to be a parent I'd not spoil the kids, at all. I'd want them to learn another language than English, like Chinese or Japanese, and I would get them tutored in subjects at an early age, such as math, science, computer code etc, when age is appropriate. Also would not make them have a certain religion, I'd tell them they can believe whatever they desire to. One thing though is I don't think I could choose the children over my partner. If it were a life or death situation my partner would be the most important thing to me. And I'd not want to have children here in the US. I also would wait until I was out of college and had a few years to live as I want to before I could even think about kids. As I have said I'm unsure on the subject. Also, just because someone is a skilled caregiver doesn't mean they have to have kids. I'm generally pretty good with my youngest brother who is eight, but I absolutely refuse to watch my 5 year old half sister. She's spoiled and bratty and is sucked into her princess fantasy too much.

If i was a guy i'd wanna be a father!!! X3 Yup, the easy life...you dont have to hold a baby for nine months and be all fatty and stuff and start shopping in the maternity section but all the clothes there are gigantic!! Then push a baby out of a 4 inch hole with the possibility of pooping on front of everyone （−＿−；） I just finished mah sex ed unit...