Long Distance Relationship

Aww, thanks Milim-chan @a13x_6. I totally get you! each day becomes harder and harder especially when your partner starts avoiding you...T^T

1,000,000,000 nanometers is pretty long to me https://img.memecdn.com/long-distance-relationship_o_2933645.jpg

Thanks Ms MissUnderstanding @swadian. And yup we reached a conclusion. One doesn't or cannot change due to environment and the other one, says yes to change but doesn't act upon it....*sigh*

I know people are just shitposting in here but I maintained a long distance relation that went totally fine for quite a bit: the thing is that it’s not easy and if you don’t have any plans to eventually meet said person at some point it’s just not gonna work out. When you say they didn’t have time, what do you mean by that exactly?

arcfire90 @arcfire90, well it is what it says. The first one, we chatted for long the whole day, the next day I was just left with nothing. the other one, we talked long at first, till we chatted a little and left me hanging so I wait for nothing, till one day he didn't chat at all.

I can't figure out how to properly reply on here so sorry if this is a double post but don't take this the wrong way but I don't know if they truly wanted a relationship or if they just wanted to have a quick chat and leave it at that. As people said just focus on having fun and just talking with people and making friends and if a deeper bond forms then you can go from there and try and make it a legit relationship. That's what happened with me and the girl I was dating for a bit and even though it was long distance, not going to lie that was probably one of the most passionate relationships I've ever been in and actually being with her in person when we got a chance to see each other felt so incredibly strong compared to everyone else I'd ever dated so I'm not one of these naysayers that'll say "long distance never works out" but like you need to just focus on making friends with people first, yeah?

Aww thanks for the good advice. And your story proves that Long Distance Relationships still work. I really appeciate it!

LDR are a lot of work. I'll reiterate: establish why you can't meet now, what will change that, and when that will/could reasonably happen. I ended up in one myself that I consider to have been successful. It baffles me to this day that I managed to make it work. We were several states apart and met up about 3 years later (after we were both out of high school). I had to do all of the leg work of travel, planning, organizing, and eventually moving. We were together up until early this year. I probably would not do it again, but who knows ¯\_(ツ)_/¯