how do men really feel about dating girls with kids

I have, and I must say the experience is both good and bad. I have never experienced the affection of a woman so strong before, and that, in itself, is beautiful. Like a love you see in romantic animes that us guys want desperately. But her children were out of control and made the relationship difficult.

I'd rather not, mainly cuz i have to deal with a kid that isnt mine. They will know im not their real dad and we will never have that sort of connection a real child and parent would. Plus i dont wanna deal with the dad wanting to come around to see the kid. Or the kid (in the case of a daughter) if they ever got married having to choose between us to walk them down the aisle. Sorry i just dont wanna be a stepdad

i know this thread is focused on men but since i never follow rules, let me answer too ! i honestly would not mind being a stepmom, i am kinda childish myself so at least they would teach me games and stuff so i can finally become a proper e-girl / gamer girl whatever and who knows, if i lose interest in daddy, i can go after his son in the future (￢‿￢ )