A Shojo Romance?

It sounds silly but...I'm looking more for a shojo romance. Whether with a guy or girl...all I look for is someone who is more a "seme" to me...I want someone who is nice and calm. Who can talk with me about anything, anything at all. Someone who won't care if I am disabled and in a wheelchair. Someone who will hold me...love me...cuddle me...kiss me...and ask for nothing more. Of course I will love them back. What I mean by something more is sex. In 95% of shojo manga, the hero or love interest DOESNT CARE about sex. All he cares about is showing the woman he loves that he loves her. I want a reason to try to make chocolates for someone, or burn myself lighting a candle, cut myself while very badly attempting to cook for them. Someone who will answer me when I puff out my cheeks and ask "why am I short." But o one like that exists...

Reading some of your posts, it definitely looks like you've had some rough relationships in the past. Given your situation, I can definitely understand your desire to have someone who is really worth devoting time and energy to. There are definitely a lot of very nice guys it seems on the forums here, but like a lot of us, we're spread out all over the country. You're kind of in that awkward spot where you're going to be graduating this year from HS and moving onto college potentially, which can open up a lot of new avenues for friendships and relationships. If you get a chance to go to anime cons, that's a great way to meet a lot of new people, but you've always got the forums here as backup so we can cheer you up and help you with your problems in anyway we can! :)

I like your reply Cecil very thoughtful. To: rukia_usachan, I hope you take Cecil's advice into consideration and definitely try meeting new people at cons or local meet-ups, I give you all of my luck and hope you find that special someone soon<3

Thanks so much guys! Problem is...I can rarely afford cons. I usually attend one of the 4(at most) conventions in Indiana per year due to lack of money from SSI...family doesn't have a vehicle, moms terminally ill...I got the short end of the stick. I should be graduating this year and attending an online college due to weak health and disability.

At first I read the title as a recommendation list. The romances I enjoyed recently are Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun, Natsuyuki Rendezvous, and the ever so popular Toradora. For your actual post however, I'm sure they're plenty of guys like that. I totally agree with going out to places that share interests like the peeps stated above. Gotta put yourself out there and avoid all the scummy perverts. That "seme" Mr. Right will definitely be within view.

thank you Tiger :> I have cerebral palsy spastic diplegia, clinical depression/anxiety, stomach problems (partially caused by anxiety), GERD, hiatul hernia. I'm not a healthy person and that scares people. XD ProudBeast - I am halfway through toradora and I adore it.