Political rants

I think you're hung up on this thing that women, despite how they look, are able to get sex while you cannot. So it sounds like you are jealous. Why would you want an easy lay though? Why would you want to fuck a crackhead? Because that's what it sounds like your jealous about in this argument. That despite how attractive or unattractive a person is, if they are a woman, they can get laid by anybody. Dude anyone can get laid if they lower their standards enough, even men. There are transactions in any relationship no matter the currency. You are either dating and spending money to date the person you are seeing or you could just have a smooth transaction for sex. This is why I don't necessarily frown on sex workers. So long as they are safe about it and not spreading around viruses and diseases. Sex internetwork is actually kinda virtuous in that regard to an extent lol.

Also, please don't go around telling women you think of single moms as "used goods" because they will know someone. Either their mom might have been a single mother, or their sister, friend, etc. It's not a good look to wear.

And to counter the body positivity thing, wasn't dad bods like sexy a few years ago? Everybody was finding beer bellies on older men hot for some reason. I would say that was a body positive movement.

Anyway, agree to disagree here. These guys are not the answer. They are too negative, focus on negative things. With the number of people in the world I'm sure there is a 30 something year old, even a 40 something year old that would meet some of your standards if you gave them a chance. There probably is plenty of 20 year olds as well... But talking about women like they are beat-up guitars is not going to get you closer to that goal any faster.

I am not jealous i had my chance and i didn't take it. Im just going based off the talking point for those dude. Im just saying the ugliest of women can still find one guy who will get with them. The same cant be said for the guy unless he has alot of money. Turning it around to me being jealous is just a defense mechanism for any person who cant beat that argument. I could literally find one girl who would sleep with me, i have done so at least several times. Its just a time and place sort of thing for me. Guys who dont look like me dont even get that option on the table. Some guys have never even been sent a nude. Compare that to how many girls has at least gotten a dick pic. We hear about it constantly on here. I can literally change it from sex to sexual content and it still holds true. Maybe any guy can get laid without needing to pay. But there are some guys who will literally fuck anything with a hole. While morbidly obese women still wanna say i want an athletic guy who is 6 foot and has a good job. They will still probably find it. Im all for sex workers and while itbis true you pay either way. But with sex workers you are an paycheck. They wont wanna talk to you, they wont wnana interact or hang out unless there is money. Not every interaction you have with abgf is one that requires money. And even then they can spend money on you. A sex worker will never give you an expensive gift like a ps5. I dont really mean single moms as used goods. Came out kinda toxic XD but yeah i just think that alot of guys struggle with things and no one talks about it. Thats why im passionate about this topic because it literally affects me, it affects my friends. I see my friends literally get their hearts stomped on but girls will always have that one guy who is waiting for a heart break to swoop in and save the day. Some guys dont even have friends to get them over that. Some guys have had their lives ruined by women. False allegations, taking children. Literally this one woman is bipolar af and flipped out causing a big scene and the husband doing everything to calm her down. She is taking his kids from him and he is an emotional wreck. You see it all the time.

Just pointing out it's a sausage fest around here so most the exposure I get to relationship issues is from the male perspective. The few here aren't really very vocal or outspoken - especially when it comes to issues.

@hell_hound7 I agree with Veru that calling single mom's used goods is bad. My older brother's mom divorced my father because he was having sex with other women while touring the world in the military. She came up a poor farmer's daughter and did rely on my father financially, but my dad sucks managing money. He can make it and blow it in a month. That said, divorcing my father allowed my bro's mom the freedom to re-educate herself and after years of asking the right questions to people who were successful, she built up a skill set that gave her the ability to become treasurer of a University that she still works for to this day. She also owns her own farm to boot! My dad never held it against her and moved on with his life. He continued working 3 jobs and living homeless out of his truck after leaving the military. Eventually he'd have a one night stand with my mom on Halloween night not long after he had banged out my sister's mom behind a local adult video store. The only reason he took up marrying her is that she and he would turn out being co-workers for a short stint at a restaurant until it burned down. When she came up pregnant he decided to get his act together and committed to working one higher paying job at a factory for the next 20 years until retirement pulling 60 hours a week, up to 16 hours a day. In the meantime he left my sister to grow up in a broken home and my brother had a bit of a beef because our father kinda forgot about him to raise me. So my life was pretty good, but my siblings got the shit end of the stick. So, yeah, being a man don't make you innocent and single moms deserve more credit then "damaged goods." Besides Panda, ain't your mom a single parent or did I misremember? If your dad is still in the picture then ask his opinion on single parents.

Well in the case of relationship issue sure everyone has them. Even women get dumped. Im not pinning everything as the fault of women, and not all women are bad people. But the good ones usually find good partners. You wont hear relationship issues from them unels thing seriously just didnt work out. They usually go the whole 70 year marriage route. But women my age are not like that. We grew up with the internet. One qoute i think is funny that can be used for this. "Latinas be like i want a 6 foot guy, girl humble yourself like your mom did for your dad" implying her dad was short XD shows the gap in what the generation before us was doing. You can also use R&B as an example all those love songs about treating women right and all that used tobget girls going and now the whole women are hoes and gangbangs and all that is what resonates with this generation. Different times bro.

My mom isnt a single mom, she has been with my stepdad for 13 years. Basically she was a single mom for like a few years and then met my stepdad. My dad however is basically a womanizer. So he wouldnt care about single mothers because he still thinks we arent his kids and that my mom was with other guys. Because yeah even my own mom had options, she also says this herself. She went after my dad who is good for nothing, yet the other guys who wanted her she claims wouldbhave treated her better. This now at age 43 with 4 kids.