Relationship issues insert your problem here

Yes I know that cecil I have the same problem a little bit I have a very wacky sense of humor and can be extremely nice to other people which gets me stepped on sometimes but I have learned to be more assertive in things though that might help you a little bit

Metal is this open to anyone can I give advice too? I find that I am not too bad at it. Despite my personal lack of success.

Rukia Usa Chan Metal you can correct me later if you like. I will post this for her. I notice not many post were made for her. Frankly I don't think you have personality issues. Everything about you is very much like any other girl out there. I do find it strange that you mention some strong words in your profile and yet you say that you don't like being pushed out of you comfort zone. Because reading it would suggest that you have a strong tolerance to many things and are very open minded. Like anyone you require attention and seek affection. But maybe in the end you do so much you temp other people and then stop them in their tracks. I could see how people would get tired of that. It may just be that you are not comfortable with your self and that is what's causing you to push people away. I don't think it is that they don't accept you. Because anyone trying to make something work with you is highly likely trying to make things work. Because they know in advance about your struggles and the support you'll need. You need to believe in people if you want to be happy. Don't be afraid of being hurt because in the end you are doing that anyway by pushing others away. If you are hurt learn from it and get back up. You have to become strong in this life. The weaker you are the more chances you have to become stronger. At least that's my advice to you.