What is it like being a guy on MO?

Had a girl lead me on for a few months before ghosting (turns out she was also with two other guys and keeping us all secret from each other). Got stalked by two guys for quite a while. Met plenty of interesting passing acquaintances, and several great friends who I am still in contact with (which include the friends of said girl she introduced me to, since she ghosted them as well). All things considered, more ups than downs. But I don't feel like I am any closer to finding a special someone than before I started. On the other hand, I have always felt that is not something you can go out of your way to look for. It's just something that happens when something clicks between two people. :)

Is ok I mean you is almost like a form website rather than a dating site due to the Male to female ratio and most times the person if you want to try to date is either taken or just ignores you. Basicly dont use this site for dating and use it like an off brand Facebook

I think it's fine as long as you don't take it too seriously. I've seen too many times people forming shallow relationships with people they've never actually seen or talked to.