Looking for a gf or bf :3

yes why will it do more harm than good? nothing wrong with trying, even though no one is applying yet. They might eventually , but they won't if you don't try. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Good luck sten! It would help if you were over 18 I think. Although not as effective as pming someone. Can I make a suggestion though? Rather than a "bump" post a fact or two about yourself. It'd give potential girl/guy something to talk to you about, an icebreaker if you will.

i second what okane and fun king said BUMPPPPPPPPPPPP

just a piece of advice even though it's probably been said before, instead of waiting for people to fall in your lap, try seeking out people you're interested in and striking up a conversation personally instead! lots of people on here don't have the confidence to step up and tell you they're interested or even really give you a simple hello. if it's something you really want, work hard to get it! find people, talk to them, build from there. don't let certain fears chase you away from that. and if someone ends up not liking you for whatever reason, just try and try again, there's plenty of worthy fish in the sea here! i've become more assertive recently with some help, and it's made such a difference. i really recommend you take more steps to really put yourself out there, even if it may be out of your comfort zone. because though this is a good first step, i'm not sure how far it will get you. best of luck!! :3

angel, this is already out of my comfort zone, my matches never get updated and i have already talked to most of them. idk how to find anyone in any other way than this and if someone posts a thread like mine then they will probably already be taken atleast if they are a girl. this has not worked for awhile now and someone said that this will most likely make people not wanna get togheter with me, and that i ahould start asking them directly instead. but i cannot find anyone directly cuz my matches never update... please help ;-;