can you talk about feminism?

Women do not HAVE to pay more. that's the point that you don't seem to be getting. You want to smell like a pink hibiscus dipped in strawberry coconut gold? You gotta pay extra for that. Just as if I want to smell like Jean Patou I might have to shell out 800 bucks. You could just buy the ordinary stuff for 2 bucks. The fact that men do not choose to buy the more expensive Armani suits and ride the Bugatti with the money from the 10 year degree he didn't spend his life investing in does not mean that it'd be less expensive for the "ideal" man to do so. We were talking about PERFECTION or the perception thereof. And, like I said, there is a world of expectations on men as well. We just don't tend to bring it up much because ironically not complaining about how hard life is for us is an expectation xD Told from 3rd grade that no one gives a shit. Man up. Weak men aren't sexy. But again this detracts from the point. btw Manscaping is a thing. Plenty of men wax, trim, and shave. Whose asking you to be the ideal woman? Some magazines? Hollywood? The beauty industry...people that profit from beautiful people and a world you DON'T have to buy into? You don't have to get surgery either if you didn't want to. Men get pressured into buying expensive cars, a big house, the newest suits and watches, and signifiers that we make a ton of money. Be ripped like Hugh Jack-ed man or Chris Evans...Hemsworth...Pratt. And a whole lot of BS all from people who want to make money off of your insecurity about your appearance but you do not have to buy in. Men regularly shave and based on how much and how fast MY hair grows I'd bet a million pound that I shave a LOT more than you do xD Some men do enjoy smooth legs , arms, and chest. Some prefer it hairy. SAME for women. they CHOOSE to do what makes them comfortable and still manage to find a partner. So clearly you don't have to follow those standards to be happy. Which is what I keep trying to tell you. It's a CHOICE XD Not really objective considering that it's a game that you don't have to play. Also still not an issue.