Traits that breaks the relationship

being ignored or devalued

Honestly, immaturity and bigotry are huge dealbreakers for me. I absolutely cannot be with anyone who's ableist, homophobic, transphobic, racist, sexist, etc. Yes I know thats really picky of me, but I know at least SOMEONE out there is hopefully mature enough to be a decent person.

someone whos squeamish i cant burp and then my partner looks at me like im gross in relationships you should be comfortable, not have to worry about that kind of thing if i burp i want my significant other to burp back, accepting the challenge i had put before him

This applies to both partners and friends tbh. When someone doesn't know when to stop. It annoys the hell out of me when someone can't understand when they're starting to get irritating. For example, when someone starts joking around and they take the joke too far or the make the joke last longer than it should. Smart is good and all, but when you act big headed or you sound like it T_T idk if we can even be acquaintances. To add to this, I don't like it when I say a word wrong or a sentence wrong and they get extra salty af. To constructively criticise is fine, but to really put someone down and call them a dumb shit in a serious tone? RELAX alright? Hits hard since people like that really contributed to my stuttering.

i need to be equals to have a good relationship they can't pedestal me and I can't pedestal them or it won't work out