Good looking people

@Snake think people are just getting frustrated with her self loathing. Most people feel uncomfortable with self loathing cause most are insecure.

do good looking people gets more dates? i say yes? there more other factors of course. but good looks do play factor. reminds me of my friend who dates very attractive women. i ask him once how he got with so many hot chicks before and he said the girls always said because he was Very Hot or attractive, etc...

Topics like this always suck to be honest because nothing we say can change their minds. This is a battle they need to fight on their own, because at the end of the day the answer really IS simple. The hard part is just stopping to reflect and figuring out what type of person you want to grow into, no amount of advice can help with that. Especially if your own mind gets in the way with constant negative reinforcement

To be honest, I dare not go to anime conventions in lolita fashion until last month~I was worried that strangers would judge me because I wasn't gorgeous enough for those cute dresses (yeah, in this country, I can regarded to be "strong";lolita fashion is for small-boned and pale girls )~Now, I dare go to conventions alone in lolita fashion without makeup.I buy and wear cute outfits to delight myself rather than to overthink strangers' views.

I'm not bothered or intimidated by good looking people. I'm not looking for one. 'Middle of the road' or 'kinda plain' suits me just fine.

@Enki True though i think women harassed more