What are some unique difficulties both sexes handles in dating?

I've got a vaccuum in my ass haha jk ..unless?

I agree with Acacia about some girls becoming shittier persons the longer the date goes on. I haven't been on a date but spending time with them as a whole does the trick. I also agree with Nameless Warrior poet on the "signals" thing, like I heard things like "if he does not get it then he's not worth it". Girls, guys are retarded and nervous af around the whole dating thing. I only notice signals a few hours later, or even days sometime. Also it's a boyfriend not a paypig, getting into a relationship for money and stuff is wrong, you're using someone emotionally and abusing their loneliness and need for company. On the other hand, guys can be really bad at flirting. There's nothing wrong with asking a girl out, asking her number or flirting with her but guys can get really creepy without noticing. Don't insist if the girl is at her job, she can't go away. Please notice when someone else show complete disinterest, it's extremely obvious in their facial expression and way of replying/evading. And no nice guy syndrome, it's not a dick move to refuse so don't get angry and move on. Dick pics and abs pics aren't a personality and I'm not sure why some guys even try it before even saying hi (if they do say "hi" at all). I've been on the receiving end of those guy examples several times and it's not attractive. Nervousness isn't unattractive though.

The whole "signals" thing is exactly why I took a break from actively dating and stuff. Had a girl do exactly what Nameless Warrior described to me. Liked me but I wasn't getting her signals/pokes so she just settled for some dude that asked her out, and then it turned out she didn't really like him and only dated him for a month or two. I feel like I dodged a bullet anyway, she was horrible at communication and I basically had to carry every conversation. The irony is that she actually ended up telling me that she ended up not liking the guy because he could barely hold up a conversation after they started dating. :u