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How to deal with creeps

kuharido
Apr 21, 19 at 12:21pm
It's not rude to block especially when they are rude to begin with. I don't think 'no' is taken seriously from women when it comes to creepy guys so just block and if you feel the need, report them to a mod. The mods are always happy to help users out with stuff like this.
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napalmamaterasu
Shut that shit down immediately and clearly. You can be nice about it if you want but nothing kills a guys interest like shattered hope.
codbo2rgm2
Will doing this and ripping the creep's spine from their ass work?: https://i.makeagif.com/media/4-21-2019/TclU1a.gif
chocopyro
Probably it's all been said already, but whatever, might as well say it again. Sometimes even nice people must assert their boundaries. It doesn't make you mean or rude to have conviction for yourself. If anything, it's more disrespectful to try to pursue someone who has already stated they have no interest in you.
riennoir
Apr 22, 19 at 6:31am
You're right. Because of my anxiety I sometimes find it hard to say "no" when someone is creepy but is using nice words. I feel like I'm being rude for no reason. Also I sometimes have problems with telling if sb massages me with intention of dating or just wants to be friends. I always assume they want to be friends and I'm nice to them but then they start saying creepy things and it's hard for me to suddenly be rude to them when I've been nice so far. My social skills suck so much -_- I know being overly nice can hurt people more because they may hope for sth when I'm not interested. They should at least read people's info before messaging sb. Mine says clearly that I like girls. If they read it there wouldn't be any problems. Or maybe they read it but don't care or think they can change me. I don't know. Interactions with people are hard...
funmusicorn
Don't worry about not being nice (or too nice), it's their own fault. you be you. i honestly do think some of them think they can change you to liking Guys too XD
cupcakerin
I find it difficult to not be nice and just say no too. I dunno why. It's like, "hmm I can see it coming but they haven't done or said anything yet". And it feels like being blunt and saying no will earn the reaction "I've only been nice to you what the f is your problem". Then again, some creeps are horny and aware and some don't realize how creepy they are :/
chocopyro
Yeah, I get ya. Its tough to tell when the line needs to be drawn, especially when the atmosphere is more playful and friendly. But yeah, like Funmusicorn said, there are guys out there who see "Likes girls" and are like "Challenge accepted." I don't think those types really get all that heart broken about getting turned down. Like they're half expecting it. If they aren't expecting it, then perhaps they're narcissistic, and thus perhaps not really dating material, even if you were straight. XD
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