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Aggressive upon rejection?

foo_fighter
@enki yeah it's fun and I'm thankful I haven't experienced dealing with nice people yet.
momoichi
Jan 16, 19 at 11:07am
its a mix of an ego thing and not seeing the opposite sex as anything but their genitals typical "nice guys" https://pics.me.me/nice-guys-before-and-after-being-rejected-8572703.png
cupcakerin
Thanks for every response so far ^^ The video was funny too. Hmm but yeah there's this shallow and entitled feeling as well. I'm thinking frustration because it can seem like they are fed up with rejection/being single that they need to vent on one person that isn't responsible for their misfortune. Attempting to make people feel guilty for saying no is bad too. I think they need one big hug or something because at this point they seem to be the main reason of their problems, I mean, just chatting with them is insufferable. Like they need some time out and they need help but it seem like it's something they would refuse to acknowledge. Not trying to assume anything but it just how I feel it is? Also I see this a bit, how some people are emotionally unstable and/or depressed and they really really want to be in a relationship so their partner would take care of them. It's part of a relationship to take care of each other but is it really someone else's responsibility to pick up and mend broken pieces? Basically no matter how I look at it, I'm really wondering what kind of person they are looking for, because it doesn't seem like they are looking for someone in particular, they don't seem to have a "type". This really fit in the objectification people have mentioned in this thread.
chocopyro
Since men are biologically wired in a way that rejection is tied a little more strongly in their self esteem and confidence than females, it's rather easy for those lacking emotional maturity and empathic understanding to take it personally. For men who don't have a lot of experience with rejection, and handle it very badly? They'll either withdraw to the dark corners of the world and conspire the next gamer gate, or get hyper defensive, to downright hostile. How a man handles rejection generally says a lot about their character.
infernalmonsoon
100% Nice Guy syndrome right there. It's frightening how common these people are. It just baffles me to no end honestly.
joshidh
it can be a combination of things tbh, some men struggle to talk to women and some women struggle to express themselves in a clear way often you'll see a young kid try hard perceive feelings are reciprocated and feel slighted when rejected and alot of times they don't lash out in that way i guess it depends on the person. It tends to be a younger problem in my experience I don't see it as much as an adult.
bob_loblaw
Nice guy: "You're cute, wanna chat?" Girl: "Sorry, not interested." Nice guy: "Neither am I, and those pants make you look fat."
blissfullforce1818
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leo_ss
Unfortunately it is an issue with men and women. Men are more talked about it because it's easier to see. Overall it's a sense of entitlement or insecurity, Sometimes both. Men may even try to beat women, while I've personally seen a woman try to claim being raped by a man all because he rejected her advances. It's just toxic individuals continuing to be more toxic.
momoichi
Jan 20, 19 at 7:38pm
nicegirl cringe is actually pretty funny https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVhG9cjJOks
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