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any advice on getting over heartbreak?

nishmo
I think the best advice I can give in that situation is to not let yourself go back. Give yourself some time, surround yourself with friends, and don't be afraid to tell yourself that you're not okay yet. You will be, even if you think you can't. Meet new people, but don't try to replace who you've lost. Love isn't replaced, it's merely added to. Your heart doesn't have room to be taken up or replaced, it's limitless.
asterophora
Being heart broken is never easy. Some days you can feel perfectly fine and then all of a sudden a pang of sadness just hits you and you are missing them like crazy. For me, I found that allowing myself to feel sad is easier than pretending everything is fine when it's not. Give yourself proper time to feel everything you are feeling so that you can naturally feel better with time. On days when your mind is getting anxious and thoughts are replaying what happened, what could you have done, and etc, what you can do is to journal your feelings and thoughts down. Journaling has helped me since I don't have anyone to confide in. If you have hobbies, spend time doing that and spend time with friends and family. Slowly but surely, you will start to feel whole and happy again. If you need someone to talk to, i'd be happy to be a listening ear. I think talking about it helps ease the pain.
sushie
Cry non stop and let it all out
foo_fighter
It would be best to distract yourself from remembering that person. If you can, go out and have fun with family and/or friends. Try new activities and stay away from things that remind you of that person. It takes time, so you also need to be kind to yourself.
houndofdoom
Yea no offensive but dont open yourself to any one that is the best way i know but dont take my word for it this is more of opinion because i have not, had a serious relationship over 13 years so i am sure idk what i am talking about.
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