How to talk to girls

Yeah this is one of the reasons i joined the website (Im one of the most pathetic no life weebs out there) but apparently I still cant do it. Even small talk is hard as F for me. Im very awkward around girls even though I am very outgoing and energetic with boys (im not gay). So uh... if anyone can help with this problem it might cure my deppresion

Just talk to them like you would a guy friend. Now, how to get them to like you in a romantic way I have no idea. Girls like it when you act chivalrous even if they won't admit it, so that's one thing, but it needs to be authentic.

Hmm well, it may be a little difficult because every girl has errr.. a bit of a type? Ahaha, e.g. bad boys, or a nerdy guy. So I can't speak for every girl. Are you trying to talk to a girl in general or trying to get a wifey ;) ? Ahaha. anyways enough with me rambling. First impressions are always important. Saying HI, to someone is okay but, it isn't exactly memorable or interesting? Try and say something that will make someone think "Wow, that person's different to anyone I've encountered, I need to talk to them more" therefore they'll be more interested to know about you. In the words of Dita Von Teese, she says you wanna be the girl he'll never forget, but obviously, ya know the situation is flipped. First impressions do not mean you have to be cocky or overconfident since, in most scenarios, that can drive a girl away. On this site, you could maybe read someone's bio and use it as an icebreaker. It's a good way of showing that you actually want to get to know them, rather than just you adding them and blindly going in with no backup hahaha. Remember, reading someones bio and stalking are different. Just to add, a good friend of mine has talked to a lot of good-looking guys, however, if you have a personality of a brick or just damn right think you're the shit, there's no way of saving a friend ship/relationship. Good looks don't exactly give you an advatnage. If you're talking for a while, try not to let the conversation die out, it can be easy talking in giant paragraphs and everything is going all well, but when you start giving one worded answers or asking questions with one worded answers, it can become difficult to continue talking. Try asking questions that require explanation. If someone is still giving you one worded answers then clearly they're the odd one and not you. If anything don't waste your energy on that. They may or may not have a problem with you, but in the end, you can't impress everyone, you tried your best. Talking is great but don't be persistent all the time. Ahaha you both have lives, so try not to seem clingy since both of you can be busy. If you get too persistent, you might drive her away, and she'll talk to you less often. Don't be creepy. I think that's self explanatory. Hygiene and being tidy. I don't know what kind of girl doesn't like a clean man. So yeah on this site it may be hard to sniff someone from the screen LOL or whatever, but the saying a painting is a thousand words is true. This may sound a tad bit judgemental but from a photo and I may get hate on this but, it is NOT hard to clean up your surroundings. I hear excuses like, oh sorry I'm not rich. That's not the case. If I took, lets say a mirror selfie (back in the day loool) and my bedroom was an absolute mess with clothes on the floor and the mirror is dirty and dusty and my table had like 10 unwashed coffee cups etc, that's saying a LOT about someone. Probably someone who has seen this will probably clean up before taking a photo but will be messy anyway and is hiding behind the scenes XD irl just look fresh and smell fresh too XD

Just say these magic words and they will become your instant wifey if not friends... "Send Bobs" Jk.. On the serious side, i had your same problem at your same age! It went away automatically as i grew up and probably you will experience the same. Since you have problem talking to girls irl, start talking to them online as it is much easier to do that, this will decrease your anxiety next time you meet a girl and maybe even give you more confidence, talk to as many girls online as possible and dont try to make a wifey for now cause your aim is to cope with with your female anxiety. Okeh next advice, talk to any females when you go to a new place like a party or workshop or quiz! The people over there wont know you and you might probably not meet again, this again will give you confidence coz if you mess up or end up making a joke of yourself then you dont have to see them again :v Alright after all that if you gain more guts then just think this much that you are in your highschool now.. based on your present anxiety college is where you have a shot at making a wifey so sacrifice your image at school for gaining controll over anxiety XD what i am trying to say is just go up to a random girl in your school and say hii and see what happens from there! Even if it becomes awkward no1 cares coz highschool doesnt even matter.

Look! A girl that's actually being honest about the importance of appearance! OP (and any other dude with the same problem) listen to her opinions very closely...

The OP is saying his problem irl and online is that he's incapable of talking to girls... so I'm not sure the advice of "Go talk to girls!" is the right advice. OP, if you can talk to dudes comfortably, but you clam up around girls, then it's likely just insecurities about yourself. You know what they are cuz it's all the things that are running through your head when you think about talking to a girl. Work on those insecurities, and you'll find it's just naturally easier to approach girls. For example, if you're an adult male, but still live at home, you might feel insecure about it. Telling another guy you live with your mom isn't a big deal... but it might cause anxiety at the thought of talking to a girl cuz she might ask you where you live, and saying "I live with my mom" is not exactly a good first impression. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with living at home as an adult male, especially considering a lot of people do it for legit reasons. It's just an example. So any dudes that suddenly got upset at my comment, sit back down.

It depends hah. Some girls like jokes, some girls like deep, serious impersonal discussions about intellectual topics, some girls like sexting and being teased,some girls enjoy memes and recommendations, some girls like dick pictures~~People who are on the same wavelength will be attracted to each other! Be friendly, be polite and be honest! Don't be a desperate and lonely incel who begs for attention.

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