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PlasticGlowStars Being judgemental is the whole point of dating, if you're not, It means you're desperate and would LITERALLY take anything. But yes, I wouldn't date one. Great actually, just got off of a longterm relationship. It ran it's course, but it was good while it lasted. So I would say successful. *Holds up Hands*

Alright, I'm going to re-address some things in an attempt to clear up what I meant with my posts. It's a scale between Short Term Financial Gain and Future Consequences. Yes, it's your body and your choice. I was just trying to drive home the fact that what you post online will never be removed. Potential future suitors may see it and it will affect who will and won't approach you. Let's say you do find that mythical, all forgiving significant other... We can also scale the timeline and those affected out a little further to the point where, say, you have kids. Is a little extra money that can be made working a real job worth your children potentially seeing their mother fingerbang themselves on a porn website? Is it worth having your child's friends see it then constantly poke fun at your kid? Or god forbid, your kids friends always wanting to come over in hopes they can sneak a peek irl? Is it worth the loss of future job prospects? Teachers have been fired for this kind of stuff. Your body, your choice. Just slow down and consider that consequences of such a career choice can be a thing you're forced to live with your entire life.

TheSailingTeaCup Well I'm not going to make this a sex debate, But EVERYONE get's a bit more desperate at 28- to mid thirties, and I'd argue women do more so, due to the fact they can't have kids up to their elder days. It's actually an interesting phenomena how many women who don't want kids end getting kid crazy at such ages. It's probably just instinct. My point being that almost everyone does. However that's a toxic desire. Let me break it down more for you. Being Judgmental is the whole point of dating. The first moment you're looking at someone, whether you like it or not, you're judging them by their attractiveness to you. If they don't hit the mark, You aren't. If they have habits or hobbies you disagree, or heavy ideals it may kill your attraction or emotion towards them, That's judging. Dating is judging a person in all merits and deciding if you want a long lasting relationship with someone. You are SUPPOSE To be judgmental, Because when you aren't, you end up in abusive relationships or settling. Being judgmental and being open minded are completely different concepts while dating. I can date someone I disagree with on levels, But I have dealbreakers that will NEVER change. For example, I won't ever date heroine addicts, or alcoholics. It isn't your job to fix someone, and doing so, is more likely to end bad than good for you. The issue when people get older is they get afraid they'll always be alone. Or in short, they're afraid to be alone. I don't have this issue. I did have it, Which is why I don't and will not, have it in the future again. It makes dating far easier. So I will live it up, to the day I die, or find a worthy partner. Because that's the whole point of dating, trial and error until you find the right person. Not pick any person who will say yes. That's an insult to both you and said person. I never said you weren't, I never said your body was, You just asked a question about camming and I was honest about it. and I could tell you're pretty shy. That's all fine, Date people. That's how you learn your standards other than basic core concepts in your philosophy that are unbreakable. Getting experience is some of the most important thing when you date. Some guys like that so don't worry, but if you want to rid yourself of it, than the only way to do so is to smile more(Literally, it's the only way that I know.) So maybe you just need to be having better times in general, Just live your life as you see fit and have fun.

Tldr past 2nd paragraph. Your profile says you’re not even old enough to purchase alcohol so your assumptions of people getting desperate at 28-30 is exactly just that. An assumption. Also i mostly just skimmed through and picked a random post to read. Dating a cam girl or hell stripper even. A lot of it depends on how comfortable you are with yourself and them and how insecure you feel. I dont have any experiences with cam girls but lets substitute strippers. Yes some are in it for the sake that the money statistically is good yes. But there are some great people who do it because well, they almost have to. Some may be in dire need of money (single moms) or even those who made a poor life choice and didnt pursue college or had the money nor scholarships to pay for their tuition. There are so many factors that can be applied to why some1 does it. But at the end of the day it comes down to how comfortable you are with yourself. The younger me would have been quick on the fuck no thats sleezy spectrum. But usually as you get older you start to see the world through a different pair of lenses and somewhat become more open minded. Granted you have to be the one to believe if their reasons are justifiable for you to be acceptive of them. But as the old saying goes. Dont judge a book by its cover