Maiotaku Timely Confessions

#825 mio what do you look like?

#826 825, you mean this maybe? https://www.recycleaway.com/assets/images/product-photos/iowa%20rotocast/trashbini-2.jpg

@826 probably more like this. https://www.buschsystems.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/TRC_main.png

#827 Dear @820 (I'm not giving any advice/suggestions, just lending my two pennies if you're interested. Also, I do not fully know/understand your situation, so if something that I say unfortunately rubs you the wrong way, I didn't intend it) Simply put, I do not believe your potential s.o. would(should rather) be bothered by you/ find you cumbersome. After all, that's what "love" is about. There is nothing "unfair" in wanting to spend time with someone you care for, it's not unfair to have a shoulder to cry on every now and then, and its definitely not unfair to have arms that envelop you in hugs. So if that's your definition of coming off as needy/clingy you may want to ruminate over this a bit (if not, let's just hope you aren't up to the level of the "overly attached girlfriend"/ some random creepy stalker) Also, I'm assuming that your feelings of "I expect a no once they learn more about who I am" stem from a sense of being "flawed" (forgive me if it is not so)... but humans are flawed creatures. Quoting Sophie Kinsella (should probably quote some Rumi; I'm practically washing my credibility down the drain as I type), "Still, that's the point of love; you love someone despite their flaws"... I'm sure the person you love is not the perfect human(if you think they are, it just further proves my point), and if *you* can accept them, then why is it so hard to believe that they wouldn't do the same for you? Sometimes you just have to take that leap of faith. p.s. In the off chance that things don't work out, move on. Rejection is an awful feeling but it's a part and parcel of life; we all need to wholly accept that and move towards the next green pasture. Change is the only thing constant in life. *shrugs* (that's Heraclitus btw, Credibility +10)

#828 @mio, WE STAN A QUEEN THAT RECYCLES!!

#829 https://image.ibb.co/nR523p/fuck-me.jpg

@820 I'm really sorry to hear about your issue. I wish I could give some advice I still haven't figured out a great way to deal with my own jealousy. Not a single girl that I have dated truly knows the depths of my jealousy the one thinks that she does but there are things that I never told her. Someone else replied to your compassion and I only skimmed it but it doesn't look like that bad advice but once again like I said I only skimmed it. @821 That doesn't necessarily sound like a bad way to go about things and I do that too sometimes. Anytime you worried about talkin too much too early then just tried to throw it a little bit. Sometimes someone will like you a good bit before you even realize it so they won't be scared off that easily. A bit of this will just be you learning to open up and Trust more which will just take time.

#830 Can’t get rejected if I never ask

#831 I really do wanna like a person though I feel kinda out of place and don’t know what to actually say to them. Plus not enough time has passed, is it even okay for me to just like a person outta nowhere? Love is dumb. Why do I have to just like people.