Advice

A girl just asked me on a date and my anxiety is killing me. My last date was over 6 years ago and I don't even know where to start. 9/10 chance I'm going to bail. https://i.imgur.com/bj7RBe4.gif

Why? Because you're nervous? So, then when you get another opportunity are you going to bail on that too? If you have an interest, take the chance. The worst that happens is you learn how to better handle yourself.

Honestly what you said would have pushed me to go. Cause I talked to her a bit more and we have many similar interests even our personality. BUT it turns out all she wants to do is hook up. she had to explain to me that it was not for dating just for sex. https://i.imgur.com/YtaPpGl.gif Me thinking it was a date^

Wow, I was actually excited for you... D:< And then it hit me right in the feels. https://media.giphy.com/media/3fmRTfVIKMRiM/giphy.gif

Congrats on putting yourself out there to begin with. Still, a lesson was learned and nothing was lost. Can't be that hurt if no feelings were truly invested anyway.

Oh no :c I'm sorry to hear what happened, especially that you had no dates for a long time. At first: take clear what you want and don't go into something what you not want. I know you are more worth as a benefit. If she isn't look for your personality, then let her go. Are you two still in communication?