I'm looking for a female cosplayer who is perverted, loves hentai and generally is similar to me. + Some backstory on this.

I respect people for being different and having their own quirks and personality since that's what makes us unique. But I have to agree with Senpai and Koreaboo. I get where you're coming from but to openly come out and drag the whole closet of "skeletons" in the hopes of finding someone you can relate to is gonna be a bit rough. I mean sure there might be people who think and feel the same way you do but being that upfront is a bit awkward and will probably scare off a lot of people if not all of them. Hell, everyone has fetishes or preferences/sexual fantasies i'm sure. But imagine meeting someone for the first time and just throwing that at them... haha. It's a bit overwhelming and a lot to take in. Most people might consider that to be creepy or weird. I tend to be openly honest and wear my heart on my sleeve as well. And just saying i'm a kind hearted/nice guy scares women away apparently. So I can imagine your situation would be pretty rough. xD But hey man. Best of luck to you and your search for a companion.

You may find better success by being more open to people and talking about what _you_ offer to the dating game instead of going around in an pity-esque fashion demanding so much of a hypothetical someone you may not even get a chance to meet. Just sayin'