Vent

You are her best friend. Definitely your place imo. If you feel shes making a mistake, tell her. Be cautious of her feelings, but if you have something to say. You can definitely tell her. However, depends if you want too. I can see both sides.

Even if I spoke up, I do not think anything will change except their views on me. I do eventually plan to speak up when I deny being Maid of Honor and try to politely lay out the reasons why but even just thinking about that upsets me. ( .. ) Thank you for the replies.

I wish you the best of luck, and that your complaints do not fall on deaf ears Instead of phrasing it as "don't get married cause your co-dependency will fuck you in the long run" But instead bring it up as "maybe wait until next year to figure things out " Or "maybe you guys should wait a while and slow down" And remind them that marriage will bring them no benefits in the long run. I would shut them down in the harshest and honest of ways.

Last tip, for added credibility when in doubt C O R O N A C H AN ("it's pretty risky getting married wait until things die down, or your family members will die") Idk