Discussion on Getting Over a Relationship

That is why both my ex and I avoid each other, we have logical reasons to hate each other and due to that we don't interact, and since we don't share classes or clubs, we don't have the option to interact outside of passing.

space is the best way, breathing room to really get back to focusing on yourself instead of someone else which it sounds like you have do you still have heart ache when you do see her? im afraid thats something that only goes away with the passage of time, my dude gotta power through it and keep your eyes straight and trying outright to avoid her isnt healthy either, because when you do see it itll hurt all that more youll always remember her, remember the good and bad, and i think that feeling of love might always be there, depending on how deep you were in with her, and its something you wont ever get over its why relationships are scary, there is no redo button, the scars last til least you find someone to put there bandages over your ached and beaten heart though your still young, its always good to keep in mind *why* it didnt work that it was never ment to be, and was never going to work rationalize that this is for the greater good, there is no ifs or buts there is only now

I already know that much, for me, my biggest issue seems to be that for some reason some part of me still has something for her even though I know that she had treated me worse than trash. So in other words, I need a way to make my heart start to become rational, if that is even possible.

Do something nice for yourself and when you have to see her or walk by her in school act like the breakup didn't have an effect on you. There is a reason you two broke up. Think about your feelings for her and why you are having them. Maybe you didn't have full closer when you broke up or you miss being close to someone.

Oh man, I had this issue with my ex, granted it was a ldr so it was easier to lose all contact with him, but it was extremely difficult getting over that month or 2... maybe 3... It is totally okay for you to have those thoughts tho, just as long as you don't act upon it. Don't think about it too much, give yourself time to heal, spend time with the people that love you and do your favorite hobbies and most importantly watch anime and do your homework! The world doesn't revolve around her, give it some time and you can call her a piece of shit and laugh about it fondly. Just don't actively looking for other relationships when you still have feelings for her though cause more than likely, that relationship would fail and you'll be thinking about your old ex and your new ex which is really bad. But definitely carry yourself with confidence, exercise, work on yourself and find out what went wrong and what not to do and what to look for in a new girl. Hell, revenge is always sweet and totally healthy, just don't over do it. Make her regret leaving you and be the bigger man and reject her, even if that likelihood is low, you'll be prepared and be able to move on, even if it never happens. In the end, it will benefit you.

Trust me, tenno, I already do, otherwise I wouldn't still be sane. And Blank, if I were to isolate myself, I would be killing chances for a future with others. Honestly, knowing the way I tend to cope with things, it would be best for me to just find something to take my mind off of it. And getting into another relationship to get over it isn't always an unsuccessful way of doing it, as that is how I got over the ex before this one (though that one was a mutual choice to break up, which may have had an effect on that, point is, it is possible).