Do girls care if your in good shape or not.

Being fit is nice, But always be healthy for yourself, Although once you get there - Remember; it's less about how you look, and more about how you act, Always tell my friends that - I know a few guys that whom are fine as hell, yet their relationships fail because they have plain as hell personalities or are just not attractive personality wise, Women are attracted to guys that make them feel loved, safe, and free. There's so much that women are attracted to, although timidness, uncertainty, and over-all no motivation or grit is not them, however women might be willing to tolerate them, however not forever.

It depends really. I once took off my shirt after not having been to the gym for a good few months and the girl I was with said wow. I wouldnt have thought so within our community, but I could be wrong

It really does, but i think a sense of humor wins more of the flock than a rocking bod does, at least that what they reckon anyway. But yeah I've never worked out a day in my life and have had women compliment me on my figure, I believe it to be highly individualistic, one woman could like the buff type, and another might find it utterly repulsive. The important thing is your own comfort, you should work out because it makes you feel good, not whoever you happen to have your eyes on at the time. That's how i understand the subject at least. EDIT: "it really does" refers to the above comment, not OP post

as people say, its all personal preference, I'm 380 pounds, I don't find myself attractive anymore (Though now that I'm growing a beard, hiding double chin, confidence has grown) I've had my share of girlfriends, fuck buddies, and one night stands. with a dozen flirtationships, and even turned a couple girls down. who weren't my type (physically or mentally/emotionally) (Note: I have been dumped due to being overweight/ugly, but I also have been called Sexy by most recent girlfriend, which also boosted my confidence like crazy) I do understand liking someone for their body, But I feel if you can present yourself in A CLEAN, CONFIDENT, CHARMING way, most may go for you. if working out is becoming tedious for you. Either change workout goals, so instead of a specific body, look for talents, AKA one of my friends is RIPPED, and he got that way because he will see someone online doing something cool, and want to do that. like 1 arm push ups, arm bars, etc etc so doing these feats of muscle was what his primary goal was, and the golden body was second

Pleny of girls hardly give a shit about that. If one is bothered by you having a few extra pounds, ditch em. This goes both ways mind you but that's how it is. If you are that concerned, work on it. Improve yourself. Don't have another person be your motivation alone. Work for yourself too. Love yourself.