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Would you change for the one you love?

xxrwbyxx
It would depend on how much and in what places, and if i thought it would be a long term thing that i wouldnt have to rediscover myself again if things went south. So i would change just it would all depend on what and how much, now if i have to make a 180 change then no i wont do that but a little change id try that and wouldn't mind that so much.
pippy
Bad habits yes. The core of who I am, will never change.
xxladydravenxx
Nobody wants or expects to change when there with someone but over time sometimes it happens. Doesn't mean it's bad sometimes people bring things out of you that you didn't know existed. Like getting confidence or being outgoing.
makotoharuki
To a certain extent. Maybe using different parts of your personality more/less frequently, but you should never try to change who you are at the core.
alucardfh
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shizuka16
*claps at alucardfh* I agree
kuroshiro_2573
Take it from someone who did change. Don't change who you are, simply adjust or remove your bad habits. You should never have to change for the relationship. And if you make any changes, the other member of the relationship should have to make changes in return, as relationships are partially involved with the idea of compromise, meaning that both people in the relationship should make an effort. As someone who has changed for the sake of the relationship in almost every single one I have been in as of yet, I can tell you that it isn't a good idea because you start to forget who you are as a person, what you like, what you hate, etc. and all because your becoming a copy of the other person's personality by that point.
muffster
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amrod
No, I changed some things that I did in one of my relationships and it drained me over time. Made me feel trapped, in the end I broke up with the girl and maybe If I hadnt changed those things about myself the relationship may have been better. You tend to do things for the other person that maybe that other person doesnt even want you to do. Stay true to yourself :D
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