Balance issues

John, Kind of along the lines of what I was saying. If you think you're defeated, you are. I 100% agree with that.

All the "woe is me" guys, as a generalization, fall under 3 types... 1. I'm a nice guy and will care about a girl with all my heart cuz I'm such a nice guy 2. They have nothing to offer, so they think girls should take action instead 3. Online, I won't show what I look like cuz girls should only care about me for me... meanwhile Imma only post on girl's profiles that have cute selfies... and when they make small talk (to be nice) Imma assume it means they're interested (cuz why wouldn't they since I'm a nice guy that's super witty), and when I find out they're not, I'll just become even more bitter towards women and the game of having to pursue them If you want anything in life, put some damn work into obtaining it. It's annoying af when dudes sit around doing nothing except pitying themselves and complain that girls are to blame, and the solution is for all the girls to change. You want a better job? You gotta convince the company why they should hire you. You're not entitled to the job. You want that legendary armor in whatever tf game you're playing? You gotta work for that shit. The game ain't gonna just give it to you cuz you're a nice guy. You want a girl to get to know you? Offer more than just being a nice guy that will care about her... cuz SURPRISE that's what every girl expects by default. If that's all you're showing her, then enjoy your time languishing at the back of the line.

Bliss, You're almost in your mid 30's, how's that tactic been working for you? Just a food for thought question. But you're right, don't lower your standards. However, dont complain if it doesn't work or if you dont get what you "think" you deserve. I wonder what my life would be like if I only chased sugar mamas?