Girls only like jerks (stop using this excuse, grow a pair and read on)

BEWARE OF PROPAGANDA FROM INSECURE BOYS!! Such as THESE offensive and selfish comments by a robot: "Confidence and being positive are generally attractive traits. Not just in dating, but just in general" "instead of always worrying about how to get into a relationship, just live your life" "[girls like] a guy that's active and is actually doing something his life" "make sure that you're happy with your life." "If you're already happy with your life, it'll just make it even better" Guys!! Open your eyes!! Don't fall for this propaganda! He's trying to manipulate you so you don't steal his women!!! FIGHT THE POWER!!!!!

How did this get so twisted? Maybe I'm just an idiot, but I assume that most (Key word "most") people who have a successful single life (Aka, aspirations, careers and goals), generally have a more level head about other aspects and how they can be of benefit to them or others. I'm not saying that the lonely geek sitting in the corner has no chance ( I mean, I got lucky enough to truly find a woman whom I love and loves me deeper than most truly realise. So, there's that for a "loser's" success.XD), but an ounce of confidence makes a HUGE difference and what better confidence does one have than in the building of their own life? It shows character, as does not striving to improve. One is not inherently better than the other (We're all born and we all will die.), but would you go for someone who shows absolutely no personal drive to at least try and improve/become a "better" individual? Space cadet comes of as head strong, but I've come to respect his stance from the few things I've read on the forums. Why not show the world what you have to offer instead of asking the world what it will give you?

There are better ways, fox. But, it's nice to see differing opinions, even if not everyone agrees. It gets ya to think a little, ya know? Just because I may not agree, does not mean i can't find an ounce of wisdom hidden. But, there are truly better approaches if you really want your message to get across.

Fox, it's okay to be interested in guys who are not so confident. I actually want to help them out. I just wanted to say that if a person is unconfident now, doesn't mean they have to stay that way all their life. It's hard to get people to like you if you don't even like yourself. I used to be very unconfident and my self-esteem was low until maybe a few years ago, but after some hard work and support from friends and family, I feel more confident in myself now. It took a while, but I actually feel happy with who I am, even though I'm still my weird and nerdy self. If you prefer guys that are shy and not so confident, then that's your business and I can respect that.

SAVAGES EVERYWHERE!!!!!!!! XD Forgot how hilarious these forums can be at times. From my experience, nice equals supiscious guy. Bad guy equals dickhead who I don't want to talk to. Middle =a guy who is being themself and not worshiping me/treating me like crap. But I have never dated a(nor do I want to) so idk. Just feels when peeps interact with me. Nice and bad guys do finish last. Guys being themselves finish first XD