Girls only like jerks (stop using this excuse, grow a pair and read on)

I believe you're making a bit of an assumption here. I agree with you that there have been some bullies from time to time, but I see quite a few people here making some good points. Just as you are using your own life experience to make a point, there are others doing the same. Sure this started off as a rant topic, but in the end this is supposed to be a discussion. Everyone is going to have their own points. There's no winning or losing here, just a conglomerate of ideas and viewpoints. I never said anyone here wasn't good enough. My main point was to be someone you can be happy with. If you're happy with who you are, then there's no problem, right? And yes, people can decide for themselves what they find attractive. So it's fine if you have a difference of opinion. It's what makes everyone different, what makes sets a person away from others. I just wanted to give my two cents here is all. You just decided it was all nonsense and wanted to 'win'. I don't usually like to be serious around here so I would prefer not to let this escalate any further.

Don't get me wrong. You have made some very good points that I agree with. Everyone is different. Everyone is attracted to different qualities in a person. I believe being happy with who you are can make those qualities shine brighter. There's mess of things wrong with me including being insecure as hell. But I want to work on being someone I can be happy with, despite the flaws I may have. From what I've seen of you, you seem to be a decent person and have some good people around you. So I think your heart was in the right place.

Live and learn, as they say. At least you can say that you love yourself. Even if you're not happy about it right now, it's still a good plus to be able to say that.

Everyone is always going to have some ideal image of who they think a person is based on their own perceptions. You can't escape that. It's time that eventually starts to break that down. After people start to get to know you over time, obviously they'll start to get a better idea of who you really are. But that's enough psychology for now. But I will say that if you want to change, it's like exercising, you need to really want to do it and keep at it. Find areas you want to work on and what works for you. I may not be in a position to say this, but I think loving yourself is something important. If you can love yourself, you have the potential to be able to do more good for yourself.

That's fine. We both are welcome to have our own separate opinions. I think I've derailed this topic more than enough. But I'm glad that we were able to see eye to eye on some things.