Getting over a break up

There are 2 things I've heard. Focus on art and dont dwell for one. And two is "the best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else"

I like the way this guy thinks! --- But as a person, 2 months out of a break-up, patience, and activities are the best way to deal with it. If you dwell, it makes recovering much worse. Also, don't blame yourself for anything. It only drags out the pain.

My boyfriend and I just broke up, I'm hoping we get back together but I'm also not counting on it. Should I try to move on by avoiding men altogether, or does that typically make someone more lonely after a breakup? Definitely would appreciate any input on this...

^ absolutley not. my advice, would be to either focus on major Life priorities for awhile. Or just drop out of the dating seen for awhile and focus on making new friends, or having fun with friends in general and just enjoy Life. But if you broke up, Drowning on it every day moving forward doesnt help at all with getting over it. You have to just accept things for how they are, and find a new reason(s) to Live. Dont think about it, and just start looking forward to other things and do other things you want or need to do. Eventually itll leave your mind completely or the shitty feeling will anyways. took me about 1-3 months to get over My last Love after things ended. it takes time., sometimes a lot. depending on how serious it was. if he ended it, i would just avoid him*, not all men. Everyone is different personality wise. You shouldnt need to be afraid of others just becuz he decided to be that guy'. He alone does not represent the whole human population or even half of it Lol. hes 1 in a bagillion. which means theres a bagillion other possible people out there that could be for you. All your break up means, is that he just wasnt the person for you, this is especially true if he never wants to get back together with you.

I find that when you start feeling sad and pretend your mad instead and let that anger fuel your creativity you will do some of your best work. Sometimes being in a dark places brings out your strengths.

Pet a bunch of dogs (or cats). Take time for yourself then keep yourself busy (be social). Eat healthily and exercise. Try not to drink or risk doing something you'll regret. Most important, don't be in contact with you ex. You can never be friends with an ex regardless of circumstances (strains future relationships and its no good for you in the long run). The sooner you can get your mind off that person the better you'll be. Then don't look back. Remember you can always count on your friends.

Pick up a hobby Go out Socialize Just get your mind right and learn to love you first and foremost. No one can or should care about you as much as and in the way that you do. Trust and relationships are important. But realize that it is equally important to value your own happiness and be a little selfish with what you want. Just don't go overboard and you're golden.

Well im still stuggling to get over a break up, whats been helping is focusing on myself and my passions, trying to make alot of new friends and just ignoring the existence of him as much as possible.

ways on moving on: find something to keep you busy, Meet new people to talk to or to hang out with, talk or play with friends and families. go on a trip and adventure. virtual games karaoke sports hobbies and food trip! stop listening to some music that reminds you of the past you were both together and the important of all? Patience and time. like me? it took me 4yrs and a half to move on. love yourself more rather loving someone else. when you love yourself to the fullest and have no more space? that is the time you can share it with someone whom you think deserves it. that is what i've done and what i do in my life. be free and always smiling because i know it is not the end of my life story and it is never to late to fall inlove again. :) http://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/5b/bd/43/5bbd43918b3e6fdebdeb1522409a794d.gif