Is this even a dating site?

people always ask this question...the answer is no. you're better off using it as a social networking site rather than a dating site. cuz pretty much you have people who are taken, not looking to date, or pretty much into the same sex (mainly girls and the girl to boy ratio is messed up as it is) chances of you finding someone here all depends on luck though it does consider itself a dating site...it doesnt function that well as one

A friend of mine married someone she met on this site, but yeah it's basically Facebook for anime and they just happened to meet here. Honestly I have better luck with OkCupid for dating, there are people who like anime there too.

i would say 70 percent of people who came here first was looking for a relationship most people either gave up and leave or just stay to socialize with other people... though there are rare events people find someone....

In my case though: http://www.newhistorian.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Christopher-Columbus-3.jpg I came looking for bronze, stayed for gold. XDXD I agree though, Facebook for anime x2

I honestly wish the whole "dating" aspect of this site would just get dropped. It's an anime forum with a shitload of miscellaneous discussions varying from pointless to intriguing. However, I think there's two sides to this site. There's the people that post in the forums who are not actively looking for a relationship in the world of online. And there are the creepers in the background that just PM the cute girls hoping that their game is strong enough to create love. In summary, the description of the site attracts the wayward lovelorn fools, who, in time, realize their social awkwardness with the opposite sex is just a lost cause here (just like irl), then they leave, or just continue to creep from the shadows.

It's just a social network site for me at this point. I have gotten into some very interesting discussions though, so I'm not complaining.