What is "nice and caring?

Huh... It's funny how people actually believe in the "friend zone". No such thing, but keep dreaming. If you're "friendzoned" and are just waiting for it to change, you're a liar and the other is no more at fault for your position than you. Don't put blame where it's not warranted. I mean, many "nice and caring" people are in relationships or married. The main goal is to be a little more assertive and less of a doormat. Being nice and caring does not automatically equal push over. Another big thing to remember is this, YOU ARE OWED ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.

Choco, There's a reason they have many short term "relationships".

*face palms* you know what the "friendzone" is? it means someone has no romantic interest in you and wants to be friends WHAT A SCARY PLACE its not called the friendzone, its called shes just not interested in you seriously, this is ridiculous :T and no juuzo, we dont manly like douchebags the same argument can be made then men just go after hot sluts and ignore us plain nerdy girls

Lamby I agree it goes both ways. I think a lot of people aren't looking for something serious, just something to have fun with real fast and then move to the next. Just different needs and wants. And if you are looking for something serious don't be with someone who isn't just because they're cute, expecting a long term serious thing. Look for people that want that serious thing.

I have the most hardcore and truthful statement about the meaning of Nice and Caring. They are both adjective's Definition: a word or phrase naming an attribute, added to or grammatically related to a noun to modify or describe it.

Lamby, were you referring to me about being wrong? Either way, I stand by what I said, with attention to how I said "ALL." Of course girls (and guys) want someone that's nice and caring... but if that's ALL the person has to offer, then you fall into the friendzone, or the "just not interested in you zone," or whatever a person wants to call it. If being nice and caring was ALL that mattered, then every guy sitting around self-loathing and babbling "I'm a nice guy, why doesn't she like me?" wouldn't be sitting around babbling "I'm a nice guy, why doesn't she like me?" Then those guys blame the girl for "only liking assholes." Being "nice and caring" is a prerequisite. But you better have more. And the "more" better be what appeals to that girl you like.